two married virgins now want to make love. please advise on the best way this can be done. if it hurts what can be done to lessen the pain.
2007-01-11 19:27:21 · 13 answers · asked by icycharia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lubricant and being gentle...
2007-01-11 19:29:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
1st. Are you really ready for sx?
If yes, than before it have a glass of wine-no more! That will make you a little bit comfortable.
To feel comfortable you should be in a place where you would know nobody would suddenly find you.
Ask a guy to be tender.
And the last and the best one advise- ask your loVer to cherish you so long and active till you would beg for him to enter.
P.S.: these advise surely cost at least 10 points!
2007-01-11 19:38:44 · answer #2 · answered by Natalya Ch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might hurt a bit because there is a type of skin that protects children when they are young. Sometimes it might not hurt though. There isn't a way of stopping the pain unless you make love at least once then it might not hurt after that
2007-01-11 19:31:42 · answer #3 · answered by jayanthi s 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe me you need no advice on this topic.
Don't be afraid of pain, the pain giving you pleasure is a welcome pain.
My only advice to you is just don't be too rough on her and just give her enough time to take a break. If you know what I mean.
2007-01-11 19:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by Rod 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Enjoy the pain or use other body parts
2007-01-11 19:31:03 · answer #5 · answered by justdennis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buy a porno. It's like a how to film. Buy lubrication from drugstore.. It has instructions on it. Good luck
2007-01-11 19:30:41 · answer #6 · answered by Chrissy #1 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It's not painful, love isn't painful too!
2007-01-11 20:03:47 · answer #7 · answered by Sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just dont build up too much expectation on the first time.
2007-01-11 20:19:48 · answer #8 · answered by Akela 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.. i had this problems in the beginning too... wel simple... try it with fingers..
1 finger first then slowly second goes in... get her reali wet.....
Then slowly ask the male to move in... don rush....
Enjoy
2007-01-11 19:36:17 · answer #9 · answered by sUnseT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called making love!!! it wont hurt, it GREAT
2007-01-11 19:53:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know, some things just weren't meant to be said aloud...
2007-01-11 19:29:51 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋