My husband commits suicide to win her back, 4 yrs ago(while we are 4 yrs togetehr). What I cant take is my husband still so nice to her and can even afford to lie to me, for that lady's goodsake. hat I gonna deal with this matter?
2007-01-11 19:13:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I don't get your story
2007-01-11 19:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He attempted suicide not commits is this correct. He is still alive.
He lies to you about her and continues to be nice to her. She is still active in his life, even though he is married to you. That's what I am guessing out of what you wrote, very hard to follow what your saying. Remember, what is at stake here. I tried to kill himself because he couldn't deal with the lost of her. She probably knows this and feels very responsible for this and that most likely why she still is hanging around. Cant blame her for that. Nor can you blame your husband. There is no fault , no blame here. How to help your husband though this, is too much for you, get him some professional help. She will need to be involved with this as well , til there an understanding . and taking of responsibility for their actions. It would not have a chance of getting better for all of you. Call someone.you cant do this alone and in the long run and the right. You really would be helping her witch will be helping you. Make that call
2007-01-12 03:45:37 · answer #2 · answered by livelovelaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there if youre husband commits suicide does that not mean that he already dead ?? or do you mean attempted suicide
?? and whats with the 4 year bit ??we need a clearer picture before any of us can help !!
2007-01-12 03:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by a parent hows been there !! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do they have kids together? If so they do need to stay in contact for the kids sake. If they do not have kids together he needs to leave her alone. If he is wanting to get back together with her so bad why did you two get married in the first place?
2007-01-12 03:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by Ryan's mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really loves you girl he would stop contact with her, or at least compermise with you. God bless
2007-01-12 03:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by ~*Tanya*~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he commited suicide you have no problems (atleast with this matter)
2007-01-13 15:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by Akida 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to state your question more clearly cuz i don't really understand your problem.
2007-01-12 03:17:45 · answer #7 · answered by chica™ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋