Is it wrong for a married women to be chatting to a male on the internet?

Question

Is it classed as cheating?

Answer 1

if its in a sexual way, yes it is like cheating.

i bet if your husband chatted to females though ... you would be pissed!

Answer 2

Would depend upon a lot of things. What they talk about, for starters. The woman's intention. And how far she goes, and whether or not she lays down a line at some stage, saying, "O.K., this is just play, I'm married, and so you can't meet me."

The same applies, of course, to married men chatting on the internet.

I feel that the cheating cuts in when there is a clear intention by someone who is married to have sex (including what I once heard called "presidential sex").

Answer 3

In my opinion, it depends on her intentions...it also goes for the married man. If you want to touch a hot stove then you are going to get burned...it all depends on your aim.

I don't see anything wrong in talking to someone....as long as you don't get carried away....you can always sign out you know if the conversation goes in the wrong direction from what you planned....but just casual chat I don't think hurts anyone. After all we are all wearing masks when using the Internet...we are all actors here on this stage

You never know who you are talking to. Plus you have to realize some people do get their kicks from talking to married women or men and also you never know if they are saving the chat text. So never say anything you don't want repeated or forwarded. There are many things to think about before you get into the chat scene.

In closing I don't think it's cheating it's like talking to someone next door or in the grocery store you are just visiting...if you want to add more to the visit that is your business. The Internet is here to enjoy it can be used for many things...and misused so it's up to us to think before we get too deep into some friendships because it could lead to problems if not careful. Best of luck and happy new year Mama Jazzy Geri

Answer 4

Depends on your intentions.if you feel guilty then maybe you shouldn't be chatting with this guy, but if it's "just a friend" and your hubby knows about it and he don't mind why not, no harm right? Cheating doesn't have to be physical though you can cheat just by wanting someone else mentally you should be open and honest with your husband if he doesn't know but if your not having any wants for this guy then don't worry about it hun you should be allowed to have friends girls or guys but it's a plus if the hubby is a friend with your friends. Marriage is never easy and there will be lots of ups and downs but if you guys really love each other you'll make it through anything. I mean anything.

One thing that helps me with all my questions about my marriage is to put myself in my mans shoes, if I knnow he would disagree or be hurt I won't do any thing that will do that if I can help it, cause he would do the same for me.So picture him chatting with another women how would you feel? Good luck with your future & God bless.

Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.

And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Answer 5

If its just chatting, in the same kind of way you would chat to a female then i don't see a problem. If its more flirting, then thats probably an issue. As for if its cheating, to me it wouldn't be right if it was flirting or of a sexual nature, but if its just chatting like you would to anyone then thats okay.

Answer 6

No that's not cheating. That's like saying it is cheating if you strike up a conversation with a co-worker or something. It's normal to converse with other people. As long as you know not to cross any lines. There is a such thing as cheating emotionally...which I don't personally believe in. I say it's nothing wrong with chatting or flirting as long as you know not to over step your boundaries.

Answer 7

How can that be??
Assuming you are married, does that mean you cannot chat with:
- Your male grocer
- Your male boss
- Your male colleagues
- The friendly male bus driver
- The taxi driver who brings you home from the airport
- OR even the president if he suddenly walks up to you during one of his visits to your town??

Chat is casual talk not casual sex!!

Answer 8

now mind you this is only my opinion but to both your questions I say No&No. First off it is the internet and just about anything that goes on here is fantasy there is so little that is real and that includes people. I myself am a believer in open relationships anyway if i truly love someone I don't OWN her and if she has sex for sake of sex and still comes back to me for her emotional needs to be met, I am not threatened she was with a guy if it was just animal thing. (if that makes sense to you)

Answer 9

no, I chat online with guys I'm playing scrabble with-but it's not of sexual nature. If you're flirting and chatting(non-personal) that's one thing, but if you're getting off with someone else on the internet-yeah...it's cheating in some form.If you say no, it's not because no one touched you--then your justifying what you know is right or wrong.It might not be "cheating", but it is straying.

Answer 10

No it's not... not untill you meet him and screw him that's when it is considered cheating... just chatting does not mean that you are cheating... and it is not wrong... what now that you are married you cant talk to anyone?

Answer 11

hi how could it possibly be wrong to chat to me married men and women chat to people of the opposite sex every day of the week and they dont get told there cheating,so dont worry keep chating and have some fun!! hope to get an email from you soon cheers!!! sorry almost forgot my manners THANKS FOR THE 10 POINTS