Is it cool or not cool to have a phone relationship with an old flame?

Question

My fiancee is receiving more frequent phone calss from a boy friend that is "Just a friend" They grew up together and dated for eight years and parted amicably. I feel secure in my relationship but am uncomfortable with their increasing communications. Is there some kind of man law that draws a line on when I should shut up and let this continue. She understands how I feel and is willing to talk to him only twice a year, but I want to understand why he feels the need to keep calling. They broke up eight years ago. He lives on the other side of the land of the free and home of the brave...Maybe I just need some xanex?

Answer 1

Twice a year? Take a chill pill, man. If you try to close her in, she'll rebel. You won and he lost. Give it a break.