For about a tear now, I have become less and less trusting of him.
He's been 'very' hateful and 'snappy' with me for NO reason.
I am not a wife who nags or even insists on anything, but this last go round about the $75,000 he inherited has really shown me his 'true' colors, and i am truly devistated that I married such a
cruel, uncaring, selfish man.
He 'never' acted this way before we got married.
I cannot discuss anything with him that concerns me, because his
'exact' words were 'It's no point talking to women cause they 'always' have to be right'!! So i don't discuss anything with him simply because i don't get 'ANY' feedback except insults.
I can't see this working at all..
2007-01-11 18:17:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
My ex was that same way. It dont get better sorry to say but if you really want to be happy and get your life back you need to leave and fast. Then when he see how life would really be without you it may push him to get help and come looking for you. But first you must move on so then he can feel the way you do now.
2007-01-11 19:02:31 · answer #1 · answered by ashlee s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems to me that he does not care about you and you don't need that in your life and money is the only thing that he cares about I am afraid that if you keep naging him and trying to push him to talk he might start getting phsyical with you. I have been right were you are at.He does not think woman are anything. he thinks you are just a piece of crap. either get help with your marriage or please get out. You can do so much better he will not change if he thinks what he does to you is right. I hope this helps. IF you beleive in God pray for him and for your self.
2007-01-12 02:33:46 · answer #2 · answered by babygirlftct 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, if he's like that, and you can't stand being with him - think about leaving. There's no shame in making things right for yourself. Why waste any more time, when you can be out looking for someone who will give you respect?
2007-01-12 02:56:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both committed to the relationship, I recommend going to therapy to try to figure out the root of his anger.
Good luck!
2007-01-14 02:20:35 · answer #4 · answered by Carrie J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is being very selfish indeed. (Sori to say tat) I think he is cheating behind u. Leave him. You deserved more than tat. For all you know, he Might have spent his 'extra bonus' with his other woman.
2007-01-12 02:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by Joy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not, leave before he destroys you even more. btw those are signs of him cheating.
2007-01-12 02:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by crazeebitch2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋