i fallen in love with a married guy n he also in love with me... but then both of us do not wish to let go of each other... is it wrong to do that??? he got 2 kids and he wants his wife to take care of them... so are we wrong to go on like this?
2007-01-11 18:10:40 · 5 answers · asked by o_O 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
it is not wrong to have in love with a married man.
but it is wrong to be involved with a married man.
and it is wrong for a married man to be involved in an affair... what happened to the vow he took on the day he married? Sorry to say this... if he can do this once, what makes you special enough that he wouldn't do it to you?
it wouldnt be fair to his wife to have to take care of the kids. and it wouldnt be fair that the kids will have to go "fatherless".
and well... if you planned to continue this relationship... i can only pray that God bless you.
i hope you will ask yourself the following questions:
1. will your family/his family approve of this relationship? if they do not... are the both of you willing to overcome this together?
2. i am sure he will still meet up with his kids in future... will you be able to take the snubbing & glaring from the kids? how would you react if he tells his kids this auntie (you) are his friend?
3. if he does leave his wife for your sake, can you cope with him still contacting her for the sake of their children?
4. will you get paranoid in future when you see him being close to any other ladies? [i presume you will as i think you will start thinking that since he can do it to his wife...he can do it to you]
hope you wont make a wrong turn in life that will make your life miserable.
2007-01-12 13:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by alibaba 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I feel that it is not wrong to fall in love with someone but the fact is the guy you loved is a married guy. However I feel that he is being very selfish as he wants his wife to take care of the kids but at the same time didn't wish to let go of you.
I don't know how you feel but I feel that it is never fair to either party in this type of situation. Others will see you as the third party who destroy a happy family as long as there is no decision being made in this sort of relationship.
2007-01-12 05:17:38 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love between 2 people is great. However, he has a responsibility as a father that goes far beyond child support. By that fact alone, your relationship is very complicated. Does his feelings for his wife have anything to do with you? If not, the relationship gets even more complicated. In answer to your questions. It is not wrong, but it is most unwise.
2007-01-12 02:19:56 · answer #3 · answered by Monsieur Rick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes!!!! ur taking him way from his family sorry tht u loved him but you have to like let go
2007-01-12 02:14:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ya it's wrong. u would be breaking up their family
2007-01-12 03:56:37 · answer #5 · answered by monochrome 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋