I Would like to improve on my sexual life and also become a great lover .
2007-01-11 18:03:45 · 21 answers · asked by Cyncon Lily 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Listen to your lover. Of course, this is easiest when they talk and tell you what you want, but if they don't, be observant with their bodies. The slightest shifting, a little, almost unheard gasp can be signs that what you're doing is right, or what you're doing isn't all that fantastic. The greatest lovers are the ones who pay attention during sex and focus on their partners more than themselves.
2007-01-11 18:36:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your imagination. The greatest aphrodisiac is your attraction to, respect for, and passion for your man. You don't need to do anything freak show like anal or fetish or bondage or pain or dominance to have a great sex life. It's all about your enjoyment of each other.
Different positions. Different rooms. Different times of day. Lights on. Lights off. Lots of oral. Lots of conventional. Vocalizing pleasure. Talking a little dirty. A couple of squirts of Redi-Whip. A ripe strawberry dipped in chocolate. Do it in a public place like a stairwell when you are positive you won't get caught/discovered. Go hiking and do it outdoors. Foreplay is king, but there's always a time and place for a quickie. It's all about how you feel about each other that keeps it interesting. No need for a freak show.
2007-01-11 18:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by Hank Hill 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Learn body massage, learn the art of fellatio, and never neglect the scrotum! Learn the art of Kama sutra (aka take it up the booty) Don't be lazy during sex, take the initiative and start sex sometimes, this is a problem with lots of women, they want the man to initiate sex but men have no clue of or when to start sex. Help them out ladies.
2007-01-11 18:58:43 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Practice makes Perfect!
2007-01-11 18:06:02 · answer #4 · answered by J. Charles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"great sex" is in the eye of the beholder.. talk to your lover and discuss what turns him/her on. some like long sessions of foreplay and oral as a warm up before going further.. some may like anal stimulation as well as vaginal.. some may like to do kinky things.. ranging from dressing up in certain outfits, role playing, or outright sickening things.. different sexual positions can also be fun.. doing it in different or obscure places in your house may be exciting.. or heck, do it outside somewhere!
bottom line, it's all about attitude and communication!
2007-01-11 18:45:16 · answer #5 · answered by Jeff 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lots of foreplay get to your partners body from head to toe and whats in bewteen. Take time and enjoy the erotic spots on the body and how they get excited.
2007-01-11 20:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do aerobics and yoga, to become agile and flexible. Exercise also increases the secretion of feel-good hormones, which boost mood and libido. Plus if you look so svelte and trim, who could resist you !
2007-01-11 18:44:56 · answer #7 · answered by shaunik_rai 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the bast way to improve your sex life is to do 2 things, one is ask waht feels good, and waht they want, and two is to watch porn, ya its wierd, but no other way is better then watchin a porn because it will go through many different possitions
2007-01-11 18:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by laxgod55 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. Keep your eyes closed.
2. Dont feel shy to express yourself
3. Belive in Love or Love making (whatever suits you)
2007-01-11 18:08:28 · answer #9 · answered by .. 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
ok i dont know why most of people who answered u types''he'' although we r in LGBT so i guess u r talkin about ur gf
anyway i think u shouldnot be shy to express ur self on bed with ur lover
do anythin that u feel like u would enjoy it if she does it to u
do it hard and faster
i wish this helped
xx
2007-01-11 18:16:21 · answer #10 · answered by Tara 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋