do older women lose sex drive?

Question

my girlfriend of 9 years is 16 years older then me ,she has less interest in sex ,i have a whole lot of interest in sex

Answer 1

Well, I can honestly say (being 49) that I have not lost any interest in sex. I could go everynight. However, that is not the case for a lot of older women. In fact some of us enjoy it more when we're older than we did as younger women. The reason for this is the children have all left home and there is a new sense of freedom. On the other hand some women never really have an interest in sex. It's not just older women, it's all women. Try a little romance, you know, candlelit diners, soft music, even watching a porn flick (if she's willing) sometimes we just need to feel beautiful and appreciated for more than just our bedroom antics. Just because there's smoke on the roof doesn't mean the fires gone out. It may just be a case of a little more fuel on the fire.

Answer 2

Woman get bored with the same old thing, how about a little romance now and again.
Some woman haven't got time and go off sex after children as there tired, another group of woman maybe need hormone treatment as we lose a lot going through the menopause, but then again its pick of the draw.............we are not all alike.

Answer 3

you didn't say how old she was, but very generally speaking women peak sexually at 40. Or thereabouts. If she's around that age Im sure it will emerge. If she's older than that she may need some kind of hormone therapy.

Answer 4

Depends on the person. Women in general are really more into "love" and "romance" that creates sex drive.

Answer 5

some do some don't

She might need some hormone therapy
Or some new and exciting stimulation from you