we've known each other for 2 years now, and since last year, she's been sticked with her boyfriend all day long. even at school i dont get a chance to talk to her. i really like her a lot, and i dont want to lose her. ive told her a couple of times that sometimes we can hang out, even at school. but still she's always with her bf.
2007-01-11 17:44:37 · 22 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should get a bf of your own and then all three of you can hang out and you won't be a third wheel.
Don't take it personal.
'-)
2007-01-11 17:48:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her know how you feel and let her know you're being hurt by her lack of interest in just hanging out with you. If she's a true friend, she'll set some time aside to hang out and talk to you. If not and she sticks around with her bf, then just move on.. Friends come and go and you can find someone else who can be a true friend to you.
Oh, and from the sounds of it, you're in high school or something like that. Once you reach college and get out into the real world, people generally don't hang around with their bf as much as they did in hs. Until then, if you have any friends with boyfriends, they're going to be hanging out with their bf quite often.
2007-01-12 01:49:26 · answer #2 · answered by Sharon X 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET USE TO IT, IT HAPPENS!! She'll come down, she is probably still in the romance period, in the meantime, find yourself a boyfriend, and double date to include her so you guys can spend time together, or tell her straight out like 2 weeks in advance that you want to plan to go shopping and you want her to go, and then go get a bite to eat or something so you guys can catch up with all the girlie gossip most best friends talk about. She is happy right now, and her head is in the clouds, it won't be long till she starts to open up to you. Just don't show jealousy or get mad, cause at this time, she may walk way from your life, and she may not come back..
2007-01-12 02:38:04 · answer #3 · answered by RAW AND GRIM \,,/ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy for her, You two are still in school and maybe things wont work out who knows but she is going to need you some where along the line just be ready to be there for her. A true friendship will with stand a boyfriend. Good Luck...
2007-01-12 01:50:08 · answer #4 · answered by stormyjoem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it up! She must not be your bestfriend if she is treating you like that. I'm sorry to say this, but aLOT of women act like that once they have a bf, especially if that guy is controlling. I ahve lost many friendships like that, and then when they eventually break up they all of a sudden want to be friends again, even if htey never had time for me when they were always up their bf's asses. HA. Well neways, my best advice to you is to remember NEVER to act like that when you have a BF. And make some new friends, i know it suz when someone blows you off like that. But you deserve to have friends that can be there for you too.
2007-01-12 01:51:55 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is going boy crazy it will soon happen to you if your not careful.. Tell her when she has time to hang out let you know. Then go make some more friends sweety, and don't let it get to you. This not personal she still likes you.
2007-01-12 01:49:50 · answer #6 · answered by Chrissy #1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave them alone. If they spend so much time together they will soon be sick of each other and break up. its the way of things. Maybe you should get your own boyfriend. that way she will be jealous too.
2007-01-12 01:52:31 · answer #7 · answered by Mr humphry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am soo sick and tired of girls being so needy and clingy with there new boyfriends. Are we all so insecure that we would jeopardize our best friend to satisfy what might be a fling? We girls have to find some balance. Don't give it all up to the boyfriend. Show your girls some loyalty!! GEEZE!!
2007-01-12 01:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by fluer_ball 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It seems to me that she would rather spend time with him than with you. Don't take it personally. She still probably likes you, but she's in love with her boyfriend. Just realize that she's not available, and find another friend to spend time with.
2007-01-12 01:49:04 · answer #9 · answered by tookabackroad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may just really like being with him. Try to incorporate him into your hanging out - go with another friend and them, since she's not likely to separate from him.
2007-01-12 01:46:58 · answer #10 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋