my boyfriend acting like he dont wont to be with me,he never calls me then he wonder why im mad at him all the time. then when i leave a message on his phone he gets mad and gets attitudes like its was my fault that he didnt answer his phone. i talk to him like 1 time a day then we still dont say nothing to each other. i feel like he got somebody on the side. he even asked my do i have another boyfriend and was we gone break up, i dont know weather he wonts to be with me or not.im 15 and my boyfriend and i has been together for a year and he just starte to act like this 2 months ago.he never calls me i call him.i hangs the phone up in his face almost everyday cause it seem like he dont wonna to talk to me. any advice on why my boyfriend acting weird. i dont wont to break up with him but it seem like something i might have to do. but i dont wont to end the realtionship because we have been together for 1year
2007-01-11 17:31:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i be tired to after school but i always have time for my boyfriend. but he never have time for me
2007-01-11 17:40:08 · update #1
Ask yourself "Am I chasing Him?" If you say "yes" then something is up. Women have a natural intuition and when we feel something is wrong it usually is. But talk to him and tell him how concerned you are. Give him a chance to express how he feels and LISTEN to his thoughts. Maybe if you stay mad all of the time and keep hanging up he don't know what to think. Sometimes guys need a little time to themselves and then they come back. Don't give up just yet unless he gets totally out there and then you'll know. Follow your heart and good luck.
2007-01-11 17:41:21 · answer #1 · answered by holliemay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're acting pretty weird too, and that might be causing him to continue. Ask him what's going on - is he particularly stressed, is something bothering him, is there anything you can do to help? You're both being very accusatory, which is only fueling your mutual resentment. Once a day is really enough - he could just be tired, or you call at a bad time. High school is tough. Just talk to him - not accusing him of cheating, but asking what's up.
2007-01-12 01:37:36 · answer #2 · answered by halie_blue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants a break and he is not sure how to tell you. When we are in love we sometimes really cling to the one we love and this has the opposite effect to what we want - the person distances themselves from us. Try the opposite of what you normally do, cool your emotions, play hard to get, don't call and maybe flirt a little with some male friends. Trust me if he cares it will drive him nuts and he'll come running your way. If he shows no emotion - he wants to move on - keep your pride (don't ever beg) and move on. Good luck!
2007-01-12 01:44:53 · answer #3 · answered by Maria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're 15 - DTMFA (Dump the Mother F**** Already). Don't waste more time on someone who doesn't give you time. Then go finish your education and stop worrying about idiotic relationships and work on improving your life, your life skills and your future before you worry about some young idiot.
2007-01-12 02:02:06 · answer #4 · answered by advancedmaster 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and find out whats bothering him, ask him, and if he won't tell you, I'm sorry you should move on, you deserve someone that will at least pay attention to you. at 15 your still young and you will be seeing alot of guys, and then one day you will meet the guy from your dreams. so don't rush, concentrate on school a little more. good luck.
2007-01-12 01:40:19 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey dear Love urself.......if he is ignoring u , he is not for u ..Get up and grow in life ....u r just 15 at ur age ...look at the career now .....may be someone lse is for u ....n i am sure ur bf might be with some other girl.....so take care of urself ......do not be emotionally depended on him....Just turn ur thoughts in diff directions....make other friends .....express urself n achieve something in ur life ....Give love to parents ......
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2007-01-12 01:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by Sam003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems like a trust issue....maby you have some close guy friends that hes starting to wonder about??....or maby hes just being an ***....you should really ask hiim about it...just a simple "babe what the matter" would b good....and hanging up the phone on him cant be helping
2007-01-12 01:49:22 · answer #7 · answered by Nick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it. if nothing gets better, just dump him. i no it's hard. but if u dont and go on having a relationship with him, u'll just have to suffer like this forever. keep ur heart open so u can notice someone that loves and cares for u and will never make u hurt
2007-01-12 01:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by Ganbatteru 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
15, you guys are growing up..Maybe growing apart..It happens all the time.. one year, but is it a wasted year?? Maybe the right guy is closer than you think.. You never know.So don't be tied down so young. There are alot of guys out there. take you time.
2007-01-12 01:38:59 · answer #9 · answered by ksk_05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him whats wrong and try to talk it through with him.
If he doesn't,then you should just break-up with him cause if he really likes you, he would tell you what's wrong.
2007-01-12 01:37:55 · answer #10 · answered by It's me ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋