my boyfriend acting like he dont wont to be with me,he never calls me then he wonder why im mad at him all the time. then when i leave a message on his phone he gets mad and gets attitudes like its was my fault that he didnt answer his phone. i talk to him like 1 time a day then we still dont say nothing to each other. i feel like he got somebody on the side. he even asked my do i have another boyfriend and was we gone break up, i dont know weather he wonts to be with me or not.im 15 and my boyfriend and i has been together for a year and he just starte to act like this 2 months ago.he never calls me i call him. any advice on why my boyfriend acting weird.
2007-01-11 17:08:44 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Dear Frinend
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2007-01-11 17:21:53 · answer #1 · answered by tarang p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been together a year, and it's only in the last couple of months that he's been acting like this, then you should talk to him about it. If he isn't mature enough to do that, then you're probably better off without him anyway. But to me it sounds like he's getting bored.
Don't take it as being something you've done wrong. He's a 15 year old boy (assuming he's the same age as you), so he'll have a very short attention span and gets bored easily. A year is a long time when you're that age, so you need to mix it up a bit, go out and do different stuff together, like see a live band or go to a theme park. Just both have a good time together and enjoy life while your young, don't let a relationship full into a rut (that's not supposed to happen until you reach about 40, lol).
2007-01-11 17:55:14 · answer #2 · answered by DJ Rizla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tough one. It could be anything. When he asks you about another boyfriend does he sound concerned? If he is then I would not think he is with anyone else. What happened two months ago? Did you have a fight, someone start a new job, or take on something new. Maybe you are both just busy and young. If you talk once a day on the phone that is not bad for your age. Do you attend the same school. Relationships are always more exciting in the beginning unless you make an effort to keep it exciting and fun. What you need to do is just ask your boyfriend if he is still happy and wants this relationship. If he does then you need to let him know you are not feeling special anymore and let him know what you need. If you do not communicate to him your relationship will never be great!
2007-01-11 17:17:00 · answer #3 · answered by Shelly D 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Take a time out. What I mean by that don't call him and think about what you want in life. Do you want a man that will appreciate you or take you for grante. If you are worried on how he will react let him know what you are doing and why, and from now on have him call you. Here you can simply say that sometimes you think you are interrupting him so it would be best for him to call you.
You have to believe in yourself, you have probably two years of high school left than college/trade school if you are going to have a decent living. Plan ahead and just cool it for a bit.
2007-01-11 17:23:09 · answer #4 · answered by Carlene W 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well hun your just a baby at 15 boyfriends "most" of the time come and go take my word for it move on enjoy being 15 when i was your age i was pregnant although i did marry my sons father and are now happy with 2 beautiful kids and more on the way i missed out on alot just being your age and enjoying my friends dont waste your time on boys
2007-01-11 18:07:34 · answer #5 · answered by amaniandricardo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure I've told you this before, but it is most likely puberty. One guy friend I have named Wilson, we always used to hang out and he like me and I liked him. We still hung out alot after we both knew that. Then sudden change. He stopped calling me, he stopped hangin gout with me, and he stopped being nice to me. All because of hitting puberty, and also, his friends influences on him. I know it's hard to deal with, but your boyfriend will come around sooner or later and everything will be fine again. Just don't get to suspicious, because when that happens, they (guys) start to think your doing something behind their back!!!
So anyhow, I am sorry I can't write more right now, but message me and we'll talk.
Best Wishes in 2007!
~ Shelley
2007-01-11 20:02:21 · answer #6 · answered by ♫♥♫Teagan♦Smiley♫♥♫ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the 2 of u have grown apart...u just don't click anymore...it also sounds like he may have something else going on....I would try to talk to him about it and if u don't get a response from him i would say to end things...he isn't worth it and your young, u have lots of time to date in your life...but cu dose to u for making it a year at such a young age...Good Luck in your future relationships
2007-01-11 18:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by eyesopen16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ignore him and stop talking to him, dont leave him messages jus stop calling him...
make him call you
no guy wants a girl who is too attached and desperate especially if you are always mad at him so act like you dont care and get him to Chase you
learn how to play the role
2007-01-11 19:01:12 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him, without getting mad, and ask him why his mood has changed. Lack of communication is the root of most relationship problems.
Otherwise ...
I know it may be difficult to accept this, but it may be time to move on. Do not waste your time with somebody who doesn't appreciate you!!! If you settle for this kind of behavior, you are setting yourself up for years of heartache.
2007-01-11 17:14:22 · answer #9 · answered by bb 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe I am too old to understand how relationships work these days. I guess things have changed.
Anyway, this is how I understand it: When you love someone, all what matters is their happiness. Your whole purpose is to make them happy. You want to be with them. You call them everyday. You don’t get mad at them over small matters. You don’t accuse them of petty things with no proof.
All I am saying is move on lil one. He sure isn’t thinking of you. You don’t knock him off his feet and you don’t make his life complete anymore. You don’t turn him upside down and you don’t make his world go round anymore.
Find it in you to move on. Its going to be tough but its one of those things that you have to do in life.
2007-01-11 18:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by tomwaterboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋