i am 19 years old and have never had a boyfriend or girlfriend. I have gotten to 3rd base with 2 boys and almost all the way with one of them. I didn't feel anything when i was with them. I kissed one of my friends when we were drunk. She doesn't remember. I find my self watching lesbian sex scenes over and over in movies and i find myself staring at women's bodies, especially breasts and ***. I find myself fantisizing about my bosses and about actresses. please help me?
2007-01-11 16:59:53 · 11 answers · asked by talons8 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Nothing to be ashamed about.
With boys, your relationships failed coz you have not that one special guy to settle down.
Kissing your friend who was drunk, well a psur of the moment.
You could be bi sexual as your relationship with boys failed, and you turning to females.
It could be a passing phase watching lesbians scens, etc.
Unless you are having wet dreams while fantilizing about actress & your bosses and only wanting to have sex with your same gender, then you are a lesbian finding yourself and getting a hold of yourself.
Check out the lesbians community in/around your community and talk to them. Get to know them and ask questions about your sexual orientations. They will be happy to give you all the support and courage you may need.
Cheers!
GS04
2007-01-11 17:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by gs04 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could be gay, but also you might not.
Don't be misled that you are necessarily either one thing or the other. It is more like a scale, say where 10 is Elton John and 1 is Ian Paisley. Most people would be somewhere between 2 and 4 if they identify as hetero, or between 7 and 9 if they identify as gay, but it isn't all that clear cut. You have not had much experience yet with either gender so you shouldn't rush to categorise yourself. Some people can be happy either way and their sexuality varies accordingly as they happen to love a man or a woman. The person is more important than the label after all.
Just relax about your sexuality and try not to worry about it.
2007-01-12 01:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by TC 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are a woman, and your sexually aroused only by women, then you are a lesbian.
2007-01-12 01:07:43 · answer #3 · answered by Count Acumen 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think probably you are...you really should talk to a gay female though.
2007-01-12 02:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah u are wellcome to are world!!
2007-01-12 01:07:38 · answer #5 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you might be, now what?
2007-01-12 01:08:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope,, that everybody
j/k i would say so
2007-01-12 02:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by stephanie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you are.... anything else i can help you with?? It would be a pleasure... ; )
2007-01-12 02:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by bom-chika-wah-wah!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u are lesbian. how old are u and where are u from?
2007-01-12 01:04:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
yes you are......duh
2007-01-12 01:04:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋