For example, the other night at a restraunt/bar a girl in the next booth stopped me and asked if I'd like to join them... her friends immediatly shut her down but I didn't take the chance to ask for her number.. tonight, same place new waitress. Super sweet attractive girl, nervous as hell and just as shy as I am. We exchanged glimpes of each other all night, but again I couldn't bring myself to ask her out. How can I take these situations to the next level?
2007-01-11 16:56:01 · 5 answers · asked by Otis C 1 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
I'm reserved too and don't dive at every girl's feet but I think what I am waiting for is to come across someone who I feel completely comfortable talking to and being with. If you force yourself into something or just feel desperate then you just might be one day too soon from finding someone who you could be with for the rest of your life. Why do you think the divorce rate is so high?
I always used to think, and still do a little, about how I can improve myself and be more like everyone else. A few weeks ago I realized, self-improvement isn't something you can just change, it's a side effect. Be completely into the other person and put their feelings ahead of your own. I get mad every time I think of a compliment about someone and then it's too late to give it. So, people like us just need to do less thinking and more talking.
Here's a quote by Maya Angelou: "People will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel."
2007-01-11 19:50:20 · answer #1 · answered by Robert 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think you better loosen up or you'll miss out on all the funny jokes that aren't that funny and just the fun stuff.
2007-01-12 01:04:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ericqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow a new pair or get the ones you lost from you ex girlfriend.
Try this on for size hi my name is: whats your name.
2007-01-12 01:06:47 · answer #3 · answered by xxgq 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
very simple, stop whining about and do it. that's all. that's all anyone who learns anything needs to learn. shy people think everyone is looking at them all the time. get the F over it, nobody cares.
2007-01-12 01:04:34 · answer #4 · answered by nobudE 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Being shy means you are always thinking of yourself. Think of others and just be warm and sweet.
2007-01-12 01:00:33 · answer #5 · answered by Dianne 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋