Theres this girl that I bumped into last weekend that I hadnt seen since high school. We were talking and she seemed very interested. We met up at a party after the bar closed and ended up kissing at the party and right before we left. I told her I was going to call her and she said she wanted me to. So I called her the next day and she didnt answer. She returned my phone call the following night and we talked, but not for long. I told her that we should hang out sometime this week. Everything seemed liked it was working out. I ended up calling her a couple days later to tell her I wanted to take her out to dinner, but she didnt answer and hasnt called me back, its been 4 days. I left a message too.
Should I try calling her again, or just not call her and see if she calls me back?
2007-01-11 16:31:55 · 12 answers · asked by Acknutz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just wait it out and if she is interested then she will call back. You don't want to seem desperate
2007-01-11 16:37:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, wait until she calls you back before you make another move on her. That way you can be sure she likes you the same and you're not pushy. You already initiated the first moves, all she has to do now is answering to your question about asking her out. And then start from there.
2007-01-11 16:46:59 · answer #2 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is interested, she will call you. There is nothing worse than a guy who doesn't get it so since you haven't crossed that line yet, you're fine. She has your number...if she wants to see you, she'll call...but for now, go out and kiss some more girls!
2007-01-11 17:17:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her a few more days, and then call her again.
If she doesn't answer, leave a message asking if everything is alright with her and then say since you don't want to bother her, could she please call you back when it's convenient for her.
Sometimes life just gets in the way.... so don't take it personally
2007-01-11 16:38:16 · answer #4 · answered by Kate 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her call you back. It sounds like she has something else going on. Maybe a boyfriend or friends or work. I don't think it was meant to be this time.
2007-01-11 17:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Tasha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't call her because she isn't interested anymore.I hate to tell you that and I'M sorry if I hurt your feelings.She don't no how to tell you that she doesn't want to go out with you again.I could be wrong but I don't think so.If I wasn't married I go out with you!
2007-01-11 16:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't you'll probably wonder what would have been. But if it's been that long, she's not as interested as you are and if you think you deserve a girl who likes you, don't waste your time.
2007-01-11 16:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Continue calling her until she answers so you know what to do next.
2007-01-11 16:57:05 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not call her again she has your number and if she really likes you and wants to go any farther she will call you
2007-01-11 16:36:34 · answer #9 · answered by Amers 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Call her but give enough space. If she doesn't call move on.
2007-01-11 16:39:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋