I am constantly at odds and struggle with my faith and spirituality in regards to my marriage, my sexual desires and the realities facing society. I am very reserved about many of my feelings and notice that I stuggle with doing what I want and what is traditionally seen as "wrong". For example, I love sex but I like it with a BDSM flavor to it, but it is highly at odds with my catholic upbrining. I just don't feel "right" following my religious beliefs at all times, but at the same time I feel very alone in my sexual desires. Am I totally jacked-up?
2007-01-11 16:28:11 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Maybe you should talk to someone who is a Christian but not a Catholic. The Bible encourages sex between married couples and if what you want to do is acceptable by both partners it can't be too bad. Is there a religious chat room where you can discuss these sort of things. I'm sure God wouldn't like you to feel like this as he is all compassionate and caring. Pray to him and I'm sure you'll get an answer
2007-01-11 16:45:10 · answer #1 · answered by Ann O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
light bondage is cool with someone into it. if your wife isn't then i guess it has to remain a fantasy.
why don't you write a story about it, something funny.
It's all just a joke anyway.
2007-01-11 16:34:09 · answer #2 · answered by Soundjata 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try reading "the purpose driven life"... by "rick warren" it has the answers to all your questions,,,,
2007-01-11 16:53:01 · answer #3 · answered by Edrew c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋