i think my married coworker wants to have an affair with me?

Question

ok here is the scenerio. she is married, have a 9 years old son. she is in her early 40. im 30 and single. everytimes she talks to me...she touches my hands, arm, my shoulder and today my face. today i return the favor and touch her back when she is sitting on her chair.

she forwarded an email job with a cartoon male penis 2 weeks ago. and she told me sometime her husband doesn't wear a wedding ring.

so my questions should i take it farther? how do i can if she is interested in me? im really attracted to her. should i tried to touch her breasts or butts next time we talk?

ps - i heard from someone that she sue someone in the company for sexual harassment like 6-7 years ago.

im so confused. dont know what to do.

" I think my married coworker wants to have an affair with me?
ok here is the scenerio. she is married, have a 9 years old son. she is in her early 40. im 30 and single. everytimes she talks to me...she touches my hands, arm, my shoulder and today my face. today i return the favor and touch her back when she is sitting on her chair.

she forwarded an email job with a cartoon male penis 2 weeks ago. and she told me sometime her husband doesn't wear a wedding ring.

so my questions should i take it farther? how do i can if she is interested in me? im really attracted to her. should i tried to touch her breasts or butts next time we talk?

ps - i heard from someone that she sue someone in the company for sexual harassment like 6-7 years ago.

im so confused. dont know what to do."

it seems yahoo is not allowing me to answer some of ur questions below. but anyway...she is the one that got the "touchy" feeling first..not me

she is the one that touch me first...not the other way around. and why did she told me about her husband not wearing a wedding ring. plus im a cancer survivor...went thru chemo. they told me i would be sterile after the chemo. so i dont think my sperm can pregnant her.

she i just confront her flat out asking her if she is really interested in me?

and to the last person juan trying to correct my spelling....ur sentence structure "you could possibility affect her son..." the sentence struture is wrong.

today she touches me again on the arms!!! im so tempting to touch her breasts or something!!!

decision decisions.

Answer 1

She's looking for a patsy, honey. She's looking to make money off of you for herself and her husband. Maybe they want to buy a new house. She's on the make for a mark to make a buck. Pardon the pun. :-)

Answer 2

I think you already know the answer. Character, Integrity and courage to do the right thing. Stay away from this woman because she has a child that deserves to be raised by his mother and father regardless of the mother's dishonest behavior.

You need to stop teasing her with touches to feed your excited male ego and if necessary tell her that you do not appreciate her sexual harassment in your direction. You could sue her today for the email she sent you.

You are really a scum if you touch this woman in any way when she is in a committed relationship where the person who will be devastated by infidelity is only nine years old.

Can you really play with a woman for fun or thrills at the expense of a child's emotions? Where are your ethical standards that are supposed to be part of your character. You are not confused and you know exactly what to do. We can make any choices we want but you cannot pick your consequences.

Answer 3

I do believe I can help you.

First it seems your grasp of the English language is at best, piss poor. In my expert opinion I don't think you should move forward with her for a long list of reasons.

#1 No one wants another person who can't correctly speak English. You breeding with this woman would no doubt result in the making of sweet-sweet love and eventually a child that would also lack the basic ability to communicate. You also could possibility infect the 9 year old.

#2 You are trying to mate with someone from science fiction. Human females have only one "butt". Your female seem to have "butts". You also want to have tried to touch her. This would mean you wish to touch the rear-end of someone from the past via some time transportation mechanism. Do not. She could be your mother. You may just screw up the space-time continuum for us all.

#3 Women are by nature, evil. You know she sued someone in the company for sexual harassment already. What are you confused about my tongue-twisted friend. Go ahead...eat the apple, but don't say I didn't warn you.

Best of Luck,
Juan

PS - Tuck it in!

Answer 4

You know every now and then I come across questions like this that make me just want to slap some sense into the person asking them!! Why are you confused about if or not you should mess around with a married person? You have got to be brighter then this so stop wasting the people's time by asking such a stupid question. Most of the timea person is seeking approval from others to justify their actions but I will be the first to tell you anyone who tells you to act on this is a person with low self esteem themselves. I don't know about you but if someone is with someone else then I don't want the left oves!! I like fresh fruit and for someone to get up in me it better be situation where I am the only nooky they are getting otherwise they are cut off so to just think of laying down with somebody who you know for sure is getting up in something else but using you for an escape because they are having issues at home just seems low on your part!!

Answer 5

Stay far, far away from this one. You should never get involved with a co-worker, and you should never get invoved with a married person. The combination of both is absolute professional suicide. Once you have become invoved with her, she has you by the short and curlies. Anytime she wants (or anytime you don't say "how high" when she says "jump"), she can threaten a lawsuit for sexual harassment in the workplace. And what do you think your employers will do: risk getting sued by her as well for keeping you on, or fire you on the spot? So, are you ready to give away your job to feel this skank's butt?

Answer 6

Go get yourself a girlfriend who doesn't have any baggage attached. You not only have her son to think about, or a possible sexual harassment suit, but let's not forget THE HUSBAND!!!!

You mess with her, & you will probably have an instant enemy in him. He could turn your lucky day into a miserable life, so WATCH IT!

So err on the side of caution if you are confused, & keep your hands off.

Answer 7

dont. its the worst feeling to be cheated on and her husband will end up finding out. they always do. karma, it will come back to u. say ur married and ur wife has an affair, how would u feel? its best not to mess up the whole " til death do us part" vowes her and her husband made!!! ull find someone btetter and single!!!

Answer 8

LUST will get you into trouble.

If she is doing all of this and marriage, what you think she will do to you. How many more mans is she doing this to.

If you hear about she sue someone for sexual harassment, what you think she will do to you if you start something with her and don't continue it.

WATCH OUT! WATCH OUT! WATCH OUT!

One of the devil names is LUST!

Answer 9

Well it sound like to me that your about to get some, then you you will be out a job. And she will get some more money

She is playin you dude. Start thinking with your other head.

Answer 10

i think you should wait for some time. when she touch you again, it means she will be in mood. at that time try to touch her hand. if she pulles her hand back, it means she is not interested. but if she will allow you to hold her hand for more than one minute, it means she is interested. i hope i have helped you .