See I like him but we have been going out for a little while now and he is already telling me that he loves me. I am flattered and everything but I really think it is too soon for those kinds of confessions. Plus he is embarrassing at times like he will go up to random people and say something real stupid. I mean I do like him and everything don't get me wrong, but sometimes I feel like..."oh my gosh I can't believe I am dating this guys"...whenever he does one of his embarrassing moments you know? I want to tell him to stop or calm down a little but I don't want to seem bossy or don't want him to think I am trying to change him. I just don't know what to do. There is a couple of other things I wish he wouldn't do but those two are the main ones. I feel like we can work through the little ones together, but come on telling me he loves me?? I really like him and all but I don't love him well at least not yet or anything but I don't have the heart to tell him. What should I do?...HELP ME
2007-01-11 16:12:59 · 4 answers · asked by asian_chick_77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
See I like him but we have been going out for a little while now and he is already telling me that he loves me. I am flattered and everything but I really think it is too soon for those kinds of confessions. Plus he is embarrasses me at times like he'll go up to random people and say something real stupid. I mean I do like him and everything don't get me wrong, but sometimes I feel like..."oh my gosh I can't believe I am dating this guys"...whenever he does one of his embarrassing moments you know? I want to tell him to stop or calm down a little but I don't want to seem bossy or don't want him to think I am trying to change him. I just don't know what to do. There is a couple of other things I wish he wouldn't do but those two are the main ones. I feel like we can work through the little ones together, but come on telling me he loves me?? I really like him and all but I don't love him well at least not yet or anything but I don't have the heart to tell him. What should I do?...HELP ME
2007-01-11 16:33:00 · update #1
He's not the right guy for you. He needs to be with someone immature and silly like he is. You should move on.
2007-01-11 16:25:17 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle *The Truth Hurts 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People don't change get out now--I dated a guy and hoped his behavior would improve--was so embarrassed at times--would never bring him to a family gathering--when I asked him to change he got defensive--it is his personality. People are whom they are if you can't stand him get OUT--sounds like my last relationship--he told me he loved me way too soon too--I think most women left him so fast because he was annoying he just grabbed onto me and I felt bad and looked at the good points not the ones I couldn't stand--wasted 2 years of my life--don't want to see you do that.
2007-01-11 16:31:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to slow down and that you like him and all but your not to his level yet, and that you really appreciate having him love you and that at least you know he feels that strongly about you. then say to him that you like him also but it takes time for love to grow and for you its just not that quickly, and please point out that you really like him. and as far as the embarassing things that he does, is it embarassing you or him, if you like him who cares what others think as long as he is comfortable and has fun, but do tell him to tone it down a bit because it makes you a bit uncomfortable at times, but hey other times try it with him so you know how he feels.
2007-01-11 16:23:23 · answer #3 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you need to be asking this, then he isn't the right guy for you. call it off before he becomes more attatched. if you're embarassed by him and are questioning whether he is the right guy, he isn't.
2007-01-11 16:23:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋