Is it strange that my former fiance and I still live together, sleep in the same bed together, eat together, and spend time with each other even though we are not together? I'm wondering if anyone has ever done this or is experiencing this? There's no physical relationship. I cook and clean and go to school and he works. I plan on moving out in a few months, but for right now,we're partners. What do you think?
2007-01-11 16:08:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Been there, done that we became the best of friends that's good to know people can still be civil.
2007-01-11 17:08:58 · answer #1 · answered by miss out spoken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It feels really wired when you put deep thought into what's going on huh? Well I will tell you from experience it is not uncommon but it does feel real wired when it hits you how you are interacting with this person daily that you are no longer with!!! I say thank god for being able to still get along after breaking up and once it is time for you to roll and get your own apartment, house or whatever that you look back at this experience as a stepping stone for you in your journey to full fledged woman hood!! Every moment in our lives our some kind of lesson to get you to the next level and better you for something down the road. Everyone's lesson is not going to be ment for the same purpose so it is up to you to discover what this means for you and what lesson you are supposed to get from this!!!!
2007-01-12 00:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by Jazzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's a situation of convenience that works out well for both of you. You both obviously care for each other even though you are no longer romantically involved; congrats for having a mature relationship and being able to remain friends. If it works for both of you, who cares if anyone thinks it's strange? Sounds a lot more sane than couples who claim to love each other breaking up and hating the other/seeking revenge/holding a grudge/etc. More power to you!
2007-01-12 00:21:46 · answer #3 · answered by stseukn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I can never do that but if it works out with you guys then it's really good. But that also mean it's not appropriate if you start seeing other people while still living together.
2007-01-12 00:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Speck Schnuck 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is working for the both of you then I don't see a problem with it.
Good for you.
2007-01-12 00:17:19 · answer #5 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More power to you.
2007-01-12 00:12:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋