I want to appear ultra feminine/sexy for MLK day?

Question

okay, well I'm seeing a friend that I only saw once during 2006, but we're seriously closer than anything. (we im) So he's real nice and I want to look my best for him, kind of the trophy wife/male fantasy look for a day. It might be kind of a date. Any tips on natural self tanners, what type of makeup to apply, perfect outfit and so on? I want to look my very best, like a playboy model or something, but I don't want to spend too much money and I want to work with what I already have. p.s. he normally does STUFF with guys so this is his only real chance to try out the straightish aspect of his personality

eek, he's not one hundred percent gay. And he actually says he wants to do "stuff" (in more explicit terms than allowed on yahoo answers) with me. We're closer than anything in the world. But yeah, I'm tall and blonde and pretty so I want to be glamourous the day he tries out straight stuff with me

eek, he's not one hundred percent gay. And he actually says he wants to do "stuff" (in more explicit terms than allowed on yahoo answers) with me. We're closer than anything in the world. But yeah, I'm tall and blonde and pretty so I want to be glamourous the day he tries out straight stuff with me

Answer 1

as a stylist/makeup artist i have found most men prefer soft and natural. so to get the "natural" look, go with soft touchable curls set with hot rollers and use a heat protectant prior to setting for hold, think pinks and browns on the eyes, grey liner(smoky look) and a tinted gloss for lips. find your best fitting jeans and a soft clingy sweater(very brigitte bardot) no tan, add a touch of bronzer but don't over do it. and smile

Answer 2

Honey, if he's gay he's not going to be impressed with a trophy wife look. The gay guys I know like when a woman is put together and not cheap looking. They like classy clothes that fit well, not overtly sexual ones because they aren't interested in the women sexually. An eclectic, trendy outfit would be nice, as long as it fits you well. Make sure your jewelry matches your outfit, do your nails (finger and toe) in a very classy color, don't overdo your make-up so you look like a cheap hooker...look naturally vibrant.
It's kind of late to use a self-tanner because if it doesn't look good, there's no time for it to wear off. The gay guys I know don't like skin that looks like an orange. I've used Dove Energy Glow with good results. Be sure you pick the one that matches your skin tones...don't go too dark.
Have fun, and don't try so hard. Since he's gay and you IM, he likes you for your mind, not your body. Relax and be yourself.

And please, please keep in mind that if he's done STUFF with other people, including guys, you MUST use protection for any sort of sex you have. If you're going the oral route, be sure he uses a condom because you can contact STDs orally. I have to wonder why you are allowing him to 'use' you to experience 'the other side' but that's your choice. I think you should expect more respect than that.

Answer 3

Well that's ****** up. This is exactly the reason some people get divorced. They like the person they 'think' they are getting when they go out with them. Then when they are married WAMMO! they get the real person, because the person is now relaxed enough to be their true self.
Anyway,
Purple eye shadow, because for some unknown reason it turns men on incredibly without them even knowing why. Wear at least one thing of pink. Act really bubbly and air headed. NEVER under ANY circumstances are you to sound intelligent. Argue sometimes with him though, because it's sexy to a guy when a girl has her own opinion. Just don't argue to much. If you argue about everything, then he will think you are to, well, argumentative.
For your information, not all men think this is the *gag* 'trophy' wife.

Perfect example: Take stinkerbell09's advice about the hair. She is the perfect airheaded, bleach blonde type. See, she can't even spell. :) Perfect.

Answer 4

You didn't mention a time limit....

A trip or two to a tanning bed normally isn't expensive
Teeth whitening strips can show a little result if you have at least a few days.
A trim, or cut to make your hair pretty
You can do your nails or go to a salon for a mani-pedi.

Without spending much money...
Some self tanner....
Maybe a gloss treatment (they have them at drugstores, its called Shinehappy, or glossing treatment)
Paint your nails, make sure your skin is soft.

I wouldn't go too over-the-top with the outfit. If he's normally into guys, your boobs in his face wont change his mind. If you will be heading back to your place... clean sheets an airfreshener plugin to make the house smell inviting, have some refreshments stocked.

Answer 5

Are you trying to turn the gay man straight??? LOL Um, goodluck with that Sistah. As far as makeup and all that, you should just read some magazines for good tips, don't wear to much, most guys don't like gurls that wear aLOT of makeup, AND if you aren't a PlayBoy Model, than the PlayBoyModel look isn't going to work for you. Just do your own thing, also, there is no such thing as natural selftanners.....lol

Answer 6

I think if you just wear your favorite pair of jeans that make your butt look cute-then get your favorite top or sweater and wear some big jewlery.Do up your hair and make up, only amp it up. If you normally wear eyeliner, then wear a little extra or a darker color...line the inside rim with black...darken your eyebrows, that will draw attention to your eyes==keeping him captivated!

Please dont use a self tanner-I dont care how 'natural' they are...they leave you orange and splochy somewhere...and its embarassing. Its ok if you aren't super tanned, its winter...use a little pink blush to go with the icy weather..too much fake orange tan would look so bad.

Take it easy and have fun! Dont worry too much about everything, if its not in your normal routine to be manicured, waxed, tanned and all that...then you cant keep up the charade if it ever becomes more than that.

Answer 7

In regard to the self tan try Dove Holiday skin, it is the best. It builds a nice natural looking tan. Wear your hair down if it is long and do not go overboard with the make up. Keep to natural tones but make it look glam by choosing your best feature (eyes or lips) and playing it up. As for your outfit, definately wear a dress or a skirt but make sure you are comfortable or you will look silly if you are constantly pulling at your clothes or walking funny 'cause the heels are killing your feet. What ever you do, wear coordinated/matching lingerie in a pretty lace. Even if he is not going to see it it will make you feel sexy.

Answer 8

Why do you think that you are the only one he can try his straightish aspect of his personality with? One day or one person isn't going to change someone from being gay. You are either gay, straight, or bisexual. It seems you are lookin' for love in all the wrong places. You are to young to put that type of a weight on your shoulders. Be yourself. If he likes you he likes you, but if you go pretending then you will never know the truth.

Answer 9

if hes a homosexual your best bet is to go more masculine maybe you should grow an adams apple or a dick at the very least try to look like a dude in drag now seriously here i realy hope my tips help on your future conquest
cheers

Answer 10

i dont know if he is gay or not but i get that you wanna look hot....so curl your hair...i am not sure about the perfect outfit ( cuz i dont kno what you look like) but put on your make up very fun but not like a clown....and just have fun cuz if he is not attracted to fun then 4 get him lol....good luck i dope you get him!!! :)