Last new year's eve, my husband drunk some beer with my uncle... our agrrement was that whoever he will drink with, i don't want him to be drinking liquor... that night, he didn't even asked permission from me... i was just thinking why wouldn't he had done it...
when he was apologizing, (drunk), i didnot accept it... until now, when i think of it, i'm still feeling angry and i really don't feel better with it. I still feel the pain, sometimes, i wnat to shout at him and tell him how hurt i am...
sometimes, when he talks to me, i just answer him and then... no more, when he asks if there is something wrong, i can't tell him...
i don't know this feeling... any opinion?
2007-01-11 15:57:27 · 5 answers · asked by danieldenzel2 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
There are going to be times when your husband does things you don't like! You need to talk to him, tell him you are still angry, and then get on with life......happily!
2007-01-11 16:03:26 · answer #1 · answered by veronica c 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He didn't ask permission are you serious? You say you are angry, why because he didn't let you control him, he made a decision on his own, I can understand that you are hurt because he broke an agreement, but it sounds more like he didn't follow direction's.
He is an adult I presume, there for don't impose your controlling needs on him. You need to get help if you are still upset about something that small for 2 weeks. what a pampered life you have if there has not been bigger problems in the world that could get your attention. Sounds as of you are very selfish and controlling get some help, before he figures it out and leaves you.
2007-01-11 16:11:55 · answer #2 · answered by brp_13 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your husband has to ask you for permission? Did you marry a child or an adult? If you want a trained monkey get one, people need some freedom of choice, it is guaranteed in the American constitution and who exactly are you to take that away?
2007-01-11 16:13:42 · answer #3 · answered by e.sillery 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The feeling is called resentment.... but I don't get it... why does he have to ask your permission to drink???? Is he not of legal drinking age?????????
2007-01-11 16:25:41 · answer #4 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
and you have NEVER done ANYTHING that upset your husband?
2007-01-11 16:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by moniquebell 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋