Help! Why doesn't my man want sex and I do?

Question

He says he's stressed but wouldnt this relieve stress? What am I suppost to do?

Answer 1

When folks get really stresses, their worries overcome the sex desire. Massage him, feet throguh the back. Put essential oils out to relax him. Play low romantic music. He'll come around.

Answer 2

My man is exactly the same. When he's under a lot of pressure, he'd rather not have sex. I thought it was just an excuse, but I finally accepted the fact that it was just the way his body works. Also, it could be because you may have a higher sex drive than he does. It certainly seems to be the case with us also, I always seem to want sex, even though he doesn't. The solution? Well I don't advise on pressuring him, it could hurt his ego. But when he does seem to be in the mood, do something different, like play up to his fantasies or introduce something new. If not, there's always yourself....=D

Answer 3

stress, anxiety, depression, could be an issue.. his diet could be a factor.. is he sleepin ok? or could be low sex drive.. not wanting sex is unhealthy. it is a natural human want and need

um, i hate to even suggest this other reason, but could be he might not be happy with your relationship..

and for your other question, yes, ejaculation is a great way to relieve stress.. i know sex can be more of a work out than masturbating, but no matter what's going wrong in my life, i always take time to masturbate 2-3 times a day.. i have to be really sad or depressed to not do it..

that's why depression might be an issue.. something in his life might be bothering him..

just try to talk it out of him and find out what the real problem is.. because stress alone should not be a good enough excuse to not want sex..

and hmmm, if he doesn't want to do intercourse, ask him to give you oral.. if that doesn't turn him on, then he really has a problem!

Answer 4

I tell u..what is the real matter..every man loves sex. Some times he has a any sex affair with outher women. Or sometime he likes to do slef sex ( hand job). Or sometimes he dosent like to u. Now u have to findout what the reason i typed above.

Normaly mens sex feelings goes up in the morning. U have to use that time to wakeup his sex feelings. In the early moring before u get down the bed touch him body very slowelly. U can find better reply to ur question.

Answer 5

Last thing I want to do when totally stressed is have sex. Little man down there just ain't in the mood. Ironically, he is ready at all the wrong times, i.e., middle of church, at kid's school play, middle of the grocery store. It is true that they have a mind of their own.

Answer 6

How hard does he work each day? He could be just too tired. Try not to take it personally( believe me I know that can be tough)and be sure you tell him your feelings, but gently (men are sensitive about these things)

Answer 7

for the same reason that some girls dont want to. he just doesnt want to hes not a machine for your use whenever you want leave him alone. when hes ready or if hes ever ready he will let you know. its not your job to pressure on him for answers its his business and only his

Answer 8

Dress up like a hooker with the boots and tight clothes and just let him have it when he walks in the door

Answer 9

give him a whole body massage. this helps relax him and also serves as fore-play.

Answer 10

bye a sexy and easistable thong duh.