The situation: I am 24. She is 23 with a daughter. We know each other so many years. She says that her husband is unable to grow a child and that he behaves like a jork to her. She says that she loves me. 5 months already. But she is not taking divorce. She says that she wants but she afraids so much. When i asked her "do you love him? (her husband)" she said that she always will. But she insist that she loves me so much. I also love her so, but i have doubts about her. Should i insist? Should i stay there for the person i love?
2007-01-11 15:39:14 · 11 answers · asked by dbatz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
my advice is to back away from this relationship. i say that only because she is married. her feelings for her may only be because she's angry with her husband. she and her husband need to work things out to truly find out if they should be together. your presence in between them will only confuse her. what would happen in the end if she did divorce him and married you and she realized that she made the wrong choice? let her try to fix things with her husband. if you love her, you will think of her happiness first. if her happiness is with her husband, then you must look elsewhere for love. divorce also hurts the child, as young as she is, but she will pay in the end as well. be responsible.
2007-01-11 15:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by Shakti Svātantrya Isa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away, and don't take her calls. She is a married woman, and you have no business with her. You should not even be talking to her. When, and IF she EVER gets a divorce, then you can be in her life. But, let me ask you this.....why would you want someone who would leave her husband? What kind of person is she? And since she has a child with this guy....he will ALWAYS be in her life, for the rest of her and the child's life.....GOOD LUCK!
2007-01-11 15:47:34 · answer #2 · answered by Kymmie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all she don't respect you, her husband, or her child, because she is committing a sin. If she is with you and still marriage to her husband what make you think she want do it to you.
She can't be to afraid of anything if she is seeing you why marriage. Love is respect for one another and she don't have any. If that's the way she show love to her husband by seeing you, what make you any difference.
RUN why you can. There is someone out there for you and only you. Just what on GOD.
BLESS YOU!!!
2007-01-11 16:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by GOD IS LOVE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not good at all missing with a marrie person whom seem like they will never leave. how would you feel if the table was turn, you was the husband and your wife was missing around on you, not good at all or feel good do it. move on find someone else. If she really love you and her husband was a jerk like she say she would had already been gone. Wake up smell the coffee.
2007-01-11 16:08:24 · answer #4 · answered by msredbonel1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about this before you make at decision:
When a person cheats on someone they are with, it's the first time they cheat that's the hardest for them.... the second time is easier, the third time is even easier... and so on, and so on.... You get the picture. So... what happens when she falls for someone else when she's with you...? You got it... she'll do the same darn thing....
Give yourself a break.. Find someone else. You are obviously having second thoughts about it anyway... And trust me, you'll always wonder if she's cheating on you.....
2007-01-11 15:48:24 · answer #5 · answered by The ReDesign Diva 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless she is divorced i would not put too much faith in it, or even wait . u are putting your life on hold for something that may never happen. your wasting your own life in the process. if u insist she leave him, she may break off all contact with u, it is never good to put too much faith in someone who belongs to someone else, and while u are waiting patiently, your cheating yourself out of finding a relationship for yourself and for filling your dreams.
2007-01-12 01:33:30 · answer #6 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's never a good idea to get involved with a married woman. More than likey because of her daughter, she will never leave him and you will only end up broken hearted.
2007-01-11 15:45:37 · answer #7 · answered by Danielle R 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is full of s**t she is going to string you along, with that "I can't leave him" nonsense until you are way too deep into it. Get out now, why allow yourself to be second.
2007-01-11 16:00:01 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances of her leaving, slim to none, move on and see what happens.
2007-01-11 15:43:18 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from her. She is using you.
2007-01-11 15:52:26 · answer #10 · answered by rams 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋