What should I do???
I am a really caring guy and there is this girl I like, We are both sophmores and have known each other a long time and we both know we like each other. She is mostly "anti touch " she was when I met her and for alittle while after. but we have grown closer and i really like her, but I think she will not like to hold hands or hug, and I respect her so I don't. even though I am a more touchy kind of guy. and I mean with everybody I always love hugs any time from most anyone.SO WHAT SHOULD i DO TO GROW CLOSTER IN OUR RELATIONSHIP. and I want mature answers, and please do not mention sex I am saving that for marraige.
2007-01-11 15:32:47 · 3 answers · asked by 1-4-all 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think maybe she needs to feel trust toward you more than just friends, maybe talk to her ask her why she doesnt feel comfortable with a hug , start with a hug.and listen good to her.ask her if it would be ok if you got a hug once in a while or maybe a hold hand, maybe.i think the best thing would be to talk to her and ask her if it would be ok and maybe go from there.
2007-01-11 15:43:33 · answer #1 · answered by appleheavenjade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her, find out why. Maybe she is not sure of the status of your relationship, or of your feelings for her. I think you are a wonderful man, she's a lucky girl. I feel you may be holding too many assumptions about her that example she's anti touch even in a closer relationship.
Just talk to her and good luck!
2007-01-11 23:40:43 · answer #2 · answered by heuteistperfectday 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
idk thats a tough one i would say to try and move at her pace if shes not ready, then shes not don't try to pressure her. if anything you will only lose her. also i applaud you on your plan of no sex, i'm not planning on having sex til marraige either. good luck.
2007-01-11 23:39:01 · answer #3 · answered by maddog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋