theres this guy and we are both interested in each other, and we enjoy talking to each other, but it seems when he has nothing to talk about, he always asks me "Wanna ****?"
should continue to pursue him or just forget about him?
2007-01-11 15:18:57 · 16 answers · asked by f.lipped 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
Well Cinderella, this is definitely not going to be your Prince Charming. If you think you're worth more than a ****, then forget the loser.
2007-01-11 15:34:08 · answer #1 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should always be the one to start conversations. Most men have sex on their minds anyway. Ask him more questions about things other than sex. He won't stop thinking about sex but it will keep things interesting. You should at least have sex soon though (maybe in a couple months or so) because he may lose interest and start to look for a girl who's more willing to have sex with him. Men can only go without sex for so long.
2007-01-11 15:34:00 · answer #2 · answered by cuteblondecrystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what he is thinking...men tend to express love and caring through sex. He seems like a jerk but he may just not know how to express himself. Communication will be the key here - don't hold back because you need to know for sure if he is a do or a don't. Good luck!
2007-01-11 15:30:10 · answer #3 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really depends on what you're looking for (short-term or a slightly longer-term experience).
My own personal belief is cut your losses and run. It sounds like all he's interested in is getting into your pants. If that's the case, he might lose interest quickly and move on.
Best of luck!
2007-01-11 15:25:23 · answer #4 · answered by Gene M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just a sex-crazed jerk forget about him. "Wanna*******" is a disrespectful thing for any guy to say to a woman. You can do better.
2007-01-11 15:22:56 · answer #5 · answered by Angelz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it does seem like he's mostly interested in sex..
if you are comfortable being used as a sex object, then stay with him. if you are looking for other things in a relationship that he doesn't seem willing or able to do, then move on..
you say you are intersted in him. well, try to decide what it is that interest you. could be he isn't quite as good of a catch as he seems..
2007-01-11 15:47:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's testing you. Most girls fail this test because they automatically assume that is all he wants.
I do what he does all the time just to see if she can keep her cool and can laugh about it. One girl passed this test last time I tried it and we wound up in a 5 year relationship... it ended because I had to move and she had to choose between her career or me.
The only way to pass this test is to say yes and see what happens.
This test helps us separate the girls from the women.
2007-01-11 15:28:09 · answer #7 · answered by Art 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys = sex crazed jerks
Don't hold it against them, its Nature. Their parents teach them better, they just forget that women aren't as full as hormones as men is all. Tell him he'll catch more "fly girls" with honey than "cr*p talk."
2007-01-11 15:24:05 · answer #8 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in a relationship and he's asking you this? He's a jerk and you need to find someone who's got a little more on his mind than sex.
2007-01-11 15:22:22 · answer #9 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You enjoy talking to him,but he so often runs out of stuff that all he can do is ask "wanna ****?"Run in the opposite direction!
2007-01-11 15:38:07 · answer #10 · answered by hotclaws 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋