No one likes me.What do I do?

Question

Angela Xie hates me.People hate me.Boys make fun of how I look.I'm ugly.I have to talk to a psychologist every Tuesday.I'm not eating much.What can I do???No one listens to what i say or do.

Answer 1

Why are you gals so hard on yourself?

I don't know who Angela is, so she can't be that important.

I am positive you are not ugly. Everyone has strengths, physical, mental, and emotional.

Nothing wrong with free therapy! I'd like to talk to one myself.

Now, young lady...about eating..You must eat sensibly. Too much or too little can damage your body. Concentrate on doing things you enjoy, find some hobbies, volunteer at a school or nursing home, keep your grades as high as you can, try to be respectful and mannerly.

They will be listening when you become president!! :)

Hang in there, it will get better.

Answer 2

You need to see your psychologist more often. I'd also recommend seeing a psychiatrist. Maybe an antidepressant would help you.

You also have to look beyond your looks. Are you a good person? Are you smart? Do you care for others?

If you're a teenager, just know that it DOES get easier. I had the worst teen years ever. I was chubby, with glasses, pimples, and poor parents. I got tortured to where I dropped out of high school and smoked a lot of pot. Don't let it do the same to you.

Look at yourself, admire your good qualities, and try to change what you feel you really need to. Get into some activities that will make you feel happy. A lot of how you feel about yourself shows other people how they should treat you. If you don't respect yourself, honey, no one will. You have to command respect from those around you by respecting yourself, loving yourself, and being confident. Good luck to you, and if you need to talk about anything, just e-mail me. [e-mail]

Take care.

Answer 3

take time and be yourself. i presume you are a younger lady? in high school or such? this is a hard time of life, everbody is trying to figure out who they are, jsut like you are right now, sme pretend better then you is all, you sound like youre more emotional and more prone to shoiwng your feelings and thats not comon of people your age, everybody tries to put up a forn and strike a pose so they all look coola ll teh time in forn of the rest of the school. dotn worry about all taht stuff, be you, not everybody hates you jsut the poepl taht dont really matter do. maybe tomrrow or the next day you WILL meet a boy taht likes you and that you like, dotn worry abotu rushing that either, it will happen, poeple will lsten to ou too, but make sure YOU are listening too!

Answer 4

Sometimes it takes awhile for the patient and the psychologist to make progress.

Most of the time our problems are so complex it takes time to figure out how they started and how to fix them.

Talk to you psychologist about this question and let him/her know you're concerns.

If you've been seeing this person for a long while you might want to try a different doctor....one that maybe understands you better.

Answer 5

Talking to the psychologist is a good thing. I'm sure you're just at an awkward stage right now. Give it time and become secure in who you and learn to like yourself. Don't worry about what other people say.

Answer 6

It sounds to me like talking to a psychologist IS the right thing for you to do at this point in time. I have a hunch that they are really listening to you -- not only are they paid to, they are highly trained to actually hear things coming from you that you may not be aware of.

Best advice for you right now is to be honest with him/her about your feelings and seriously accept their help and listen to what they have to say. Also, be prepared to do the work that they ask from you in return -- all the advice in the world will not be of any good unless one puts their feet in motion and act on it.

Please keep in mind that it is perfectly normal and okay to need help along life's journey and it is very mature to accept it and take responsibility for your well-being.

Answer 7

stop whining and try to find something to be passionate about and excel in something. Read more, exercise, learn to play the piano, volunteer at an animal shelter, get a part time job...experience life and live it. Don't waste your time complaining and spend some time improving your self. Before long you will be fabulously intelligent, talented and have so many cool and interesting passions that you could careless what superficial say about you.

Answer 8

It's ok. Life will get better. Before you can HAVE friends, you have to BE a friend. Just be nice to everybody. If boys make fun of you...WHO CARES????? If you're a teenager, that's just the way boys are. I think (really hope : )) they'll get better. Looks aren't important. Someday, you'll meet someone who loves you for your amazing self. Just try to look at things positively, and everything will seem better.

Answer 9

Okay first of all don't let what people say get to you. You are who you are be proud of that. and if guys make fun of how you look ignore them they obviosly have nothing better to do. Find a friend who you can be good friends with :) be positive there is someone right out there who you could be great friends with:)

Answer 10

listen to me... don't hate yourself because someone else hates you. You have to move on. maybe try to meet new people. If you know deep down inside of you that you love yourself then it doesn't matter if other people think you are ugly. what do you think? the person who told you that you were ugly, might as well look worse than ugly. don't let people put you down over nonsense. If you think that nobody is listening then maybe you should listen to them for once......