right now he is puling out, and thats the only birth control we are using.i dont want to hear it if all your going to say is how i shouldnt be sneaky or whatever but i dont care about your opinion all i want to hear is from people who have ideas on how to do it,ok
2007-01-11 14:42:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Trying to Conceive
ok first off i am not going to slep with another guy, ive ben with him for three years, and i know for a fact he wouldnt leave me if i did get pregnant, and he wants kids, just not right now
2007-01-11 14:49:00 · update #1
and btw if he did leave i would still get child support cuz its the law!
2007-01-11 14:50:08 · update #2
You on top and don't stop when he says he's getting close.
2007-01-11 14:46:17 · answer #1 · answered by jilldaniel_wv 7 · 0⤊ 6⤋
All i can say is i really hope you dont get pregnant! Do you understand the responiblity of taking care of a child on your own. Clearly just by your ? you are totally unready to have a child. It is irresponsible to do what you are trying to do. I greatly hope you dont succeed. And btw it might be the law that they have to pay support, but did you ever see them commericals on tv with the poor lady that owed like $15,000 in back support? Men do have ways of getting around that. Not to mention do you know what support is for one child? Not nearly enough to raise it. And ever heard of signing over parental rights thats possible too.
2007-01-11 14:51:02 · answer #2 · answered by coliepollie22 2 · 5⤊ 2⤋
If that's all the birth control youre using, youre going to get pregnant anyway! the withdrawl method doesn't work as birth control. if you keep doing what you're doing, it'll happen. hope you're not planning an your boyfriend sticking around or paying child support cuz you don't deserve it. go to a sperm bank if all you want is a donor.
2007-01-11 14:47:54 · answer #3 · answered by crazyjmommy 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Well you know that pulling out doesnt prevent pregnancy. SO what your doing will eventually make you pregnant. But do concider he may not want children and may run when you do get pregnant. Traping a man isnt a good idea and wont make him stay. Just concider everything before its too late
2007-01-11 14:46:50 · answer #4 · answered by April S 2 · 5⤊ 1⤋
well if you dont want him to know you obviously dont trust him and you must think he will leave.. kids are a HUGE step in life and when trying to conceive both "partners" should be involved in that huge step in life.. you could be making a huge mistake and not even know it please be careful for your own sake A MAN CAN WALK OUT BUT A CHILD CAN NOT !! you will carry that responsability for life Good luck
2007-01-11 18:17:51 · answer #5 · answered by amaniandricardo 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Put yourself in his shoes for a minute...Would you want to be tricked? If he is not ready for kids right now then why try to trick him?
I couldn't live with myself if i conceived a child out of a lie.
2007-01-11 17:03:02 · answer #6 · answered by ஐ♥Julian'sMommy♥ஐ 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wow, they never warned us about this in sex ed. Jessi I'm a guy and what I can't believe are all the women suggesting her to 'poke holes' in the condom and 'scoop it up' inside her. I guess they figure, damn the poor child who might come out of this, long as this woman is happy.
Girls, please warn your sons/brothers/nephews that their are really predator women out there like Melissa.
2007-01-11 16:40:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
there are so many children in this world without loving fathers to be there with them and all you can think about is yourself! personal opinion--you dont need children! maybe your bf doesn't want kids right now bc he knows he not responsible or maybe he would like a way to support a child for 18 years. sounds to me like you want a child to benefit yourself. your not thinking about the harm you could do to the child in the future and to me that's selfish!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-11 17:13:48 · answer #8 · answered by happychick 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ROFLMAO! Just keep doing what you're doing. Pull out method has a HIGH failure rate! You wouldn't even have to be sneaky about it.
2007-01-11 14:46:47 · answer #9 · answered by chicpower 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well you can go to the dr and get the pill and just dont take it . and you can tell him that you dont need to pull out no more . and you can poke holes in the comdom . i want a baby also with out my man knowing lol. put i have the pill and i just flush them everyday . so i can get pregnant. good luck
2007-01-11 15:18:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
My friend just got pregnant from her man pulling out.
That method does not work all of the time.
As far as getting pregnant without him knowing...I guess try to have him keep it in instead of pulling out a week or so after your period!
good luck with whatever you decide
2007-01-11 14:52:47 · answer #11 · answered by princesandy2004 2 · 0⤊ 6⤋