Okay so i've been in love with this girl ever since i went to college but she didnt like me that way so i just let it go but i still loved her. i met someone else who i love and we've been together for about a year and three months now. the first girl and i are still friends and we've been talking alot lately and we had a night together-intimately. she wants to have a relationship with me. she just moved away but she still wants to be my girlfriend. recently though she hasnt been talkin to me. no calls no text and she wont respond to my emails. maybe she's adjusting idk. but im just torn between the two. any suggestions.
2007-01-11 14:38:52 · 5 answers · asked by rocky 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
The first girl you described sounds like all talk stick with something a bit more realistic if your heart honestly tells you to be with the first girl then do it but understand the emotional consquences if you choose to do so.
2007-01-11 15:16:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stay with your current girlfriend. it seems to be a good relationship that is going well. the old friend seems confused. she might be avoiding you because she feels awkward about what you did intimately.. could be she was just curious to try it (or maybe she felt pressured into doing it?) not really sure..
but yah, focus on your current love unless there is a good reason to end it.. don't let the "greener grass on the other side" influence you..
2007-01-11 23:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jeff 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
STAY WITH YOUR CURRENT GIRLFRIEND!! the first one is flaky. you illustrated it by saying that she used to not love youu and now she "does." your current gf has loved you for a very long time. and as far as i know, which is not very much regarding this situation, she has remained faithful to you.
do not waste a great relationship for a wimpy, two month dating period.
2007-01-11 23:24:39 · answer #3 · answered by happyinblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol my heart is torn 4 u also honye u r in a hard position good luck 2 ya!!
2007-01-12 05:02:44 · answer #4 · answered by revolution 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your current girlfriend is good to you then stay with her.... don't mess up a good thing
2007-01-11 22:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋