when ever i ask my friend if she knows about something she ALWAYS says,"Oh Yea I KNow That"! But, i really think she doesn't so one day i asked her if she knew of something that was fake and she said she did. So what should i do?PS:Also she talks bad things about me and others behind their back.i don't even really think she likes me!
2007-01-11 14:28:31 · 16 answers · asked by curious george 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
stop hanging out with her...
2007-01-11 14:30:52 · answer #1 · answered by anette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I knew someone once that did the same thing. He knew everything about everything. Everyone knew he made up a lot of what he was talking about, but I just figured it was because that was his way of getting noticed. You see, when he was a child he was neglected and abused (I knew that to be true). And the stuff we would talk about was stuff that didn't really matter; nothing life or death. So I listened to it and tried not to get to hung up on it. Maybe your friend is just trying to fit in. If you think you can't take another minute of it, sit her down and very nicely explain to her how badly it annoys you. And if you can't communicate about it and work things out, then maybe you shouldn't be friends any longer. And as far as "talking behind your back". Obviously someone is telling you things and, in all reality, they are the ones talking behind someones back - aren't they? Be careful who you trust and don't judge people too harshly. Always try to be as kind to people as you can.
2007-01-11 14:48:52 · answer #2 · answered by truthseeker221 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not really your friend and if your just now figuring that out then your not paying attention. I know it's hard to notice when your in the situation but that's so obvious. SHE DOESN'T LIKE YOU AND NEVER WILL!!!!!!!!!!!! She talks about you behind your back and your still call her your friend. I wouldn't be able to take it. She would of heard something from me by now.
2007-01-11 14:35:44 · answer #3 · answered by momo13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first of all ,
if she talks behind your back or doesn't even LIKE you then don't be her friend. I mean I know it sounds too literal but you should. nobody should do that to you, for a friend that is just cruel .
But for the other question, she just wants to act cool and say yes because she knows that she secretly doesn't but doesn't want to tell that to you.
If ya need anything just ask!
2007-01-11 14:32:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
normally I'd say cut the dingbat loose...
cause she probably acts like a knowitall all the time with everyone... you're not the only one she does it to.
but sometimes depending on your relationship you can look at her in a "that's what I expect of you" sort of way.
There have to be other areas in your friendship that make it a friendship - sorry to say it'll be a selective friendship... they do exsist to fill the little gaps in our lives...
you wouldn't tell your secrets to the gossip queen, but you and the gossip queen have lots of fun going to the movies together and bake cookies on thursday night or hang at the bar on friday... get my drift?
There's a huge fault in this girl if she's lying to you... I would talk to her about lying in general and what you expect as far as that's concerned... Tell her IN GENERAL how you feel about people talking about you behind your back, so she knows very clearly what you do to people who do talk behind your back...
(for me it was kicking their ***... which honestly I did do when I was betrayed twice in my life by "close" friends, but we became selective friends afterwards. When you move on... that's when they fade out.)
She may very well need to be faded out of your life at some point, but it's obvious you want to try to be friends otherwise you wouldn't be on here asking about her. I go through smiliar things with family and friends... frustrates the hell out of me, but I stay away from those types of conversations and have other people in my life with whom I can have those types of conversations with... get the idea?
If it annoys you all that much.... cut her loose. lol, but that's a fault on yourself for ending because of her small negative trait... try looking for the good in her first... and let that be the basis of your friendship.
2007-01-11 14:40:06 · answer #5 · answered by TVSPBT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she talks bad things about you behind your back she is not even your freind find a better friend.
2007-01-11 14:36:50 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen girl, that is not your true friend if she just talks about you all the time. I think that you should forget about calling her your friend....if you have old or other friends start hanging out with them ....or if you don't have any other friends.. its always good to meet new people and learn how to socialize.
2007-01-11 14:33:57 · answer #7 · answered by sMarTie_gUrl001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like she worries about her image way to much, to the point she trys to come across as a know it all and puts other people down to boost herself.
You could try talking her about this in a nice way or just cut her from your life you don't need someone around who's trying to cut you down.
2007-01-11 14:32:29 · answer #8 · answered by gypse76 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then why bother being her friend? if she is not a positive person in your life, why bother if she sounds really stupid to begin with. Go ahead, call her out, make sure its in front of everyone...
2007-01-11 14:32:02 · answer #9 · answered by bob b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with her and tell her what bothers you most. Then, if she doesn't do anything about it, find someone you are more comfortable with for a friend...
2007-01-11 14:33:19 · answer #10 · answered by Patricia D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, you need to get a new friend and leave this one alone.
You will be happier.
2007-01-11 14:31:30 · answer #11 · answered by Melissa M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋