wat should i do im 18 female i dont know wats happend ive been goin out with him for ages sometime he can get an arrection when he knows someones close but he cant when were on are own like when someones in bed he gets that frill
2007-01-11 14:22:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Quite a few possible answers to this, He may be nervous, or afraid to show his emotions; he may not find you sexually attractive. Unfortunately it is also possible that he find may be Gay. Any of the above may not be true as there are many reasons as to why an erection cannot be attained, only when the reason is found; can an answer be given.
2007-01-11 17:59:23 · answer #1 · answered by stargazer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea, ok, if you have any bit of a brain you should leave him, if you guys are 18 and only having sex with other people in bed with you, you either must be really unattractive or have some issues, once every now and again maybe, but, no, that is just crazy
2007-01-11 14:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't mention the sex of the other person/people in bed with you. if they are solely female, end the relationship because he'll never be confined to one woman. if there are men in your bed, your b/f may need to see another man pleasuring you to reach arousal for himself. or, he may be turned on being in bed with a man. in this case, leave immediately. run, don't walk away and don't look back.
2007-01-15 03:03:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
then it's probably phycological. Maybe he's nervous or something. Why don't you talk to him and just help him relax. Or there's always therapy. But first just try foreplay without the actual sex. good luck
2007-01-11 14:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
cant help you there
2007-01-11 15:35:35 · answer #5 · answered by mountainchowpurple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋