How to bring up the topic of oral with my bf?

Question

We have been dating for a year now, and when we first met, I told him I wasnt comfortable receiving oral (self-conscious), but I always gave oral to him and still do. Well, like I said that was a year ago, and our relationship is great. Now I want to try oral, so I brought up the topic, and he said we could try me receiving but it never happened ( MONTHS later). So I have hinted that to him recently, a few times, to try again, and he kinda ignored it and brushed it off. Well now I am thinking that maybe he doesnt want to give it anymore or he thinks he can get away with not giving, hoping I will just drop it. I know he has done it in the past, but I am so tired of bringing it up and then he never follows through. What do I say to him? I just want to try it, do guys really not like giving oral to a girl?

PS. Im very clean, so its not like I smell

Thanks

Answer 1

I would never give oral to a girl.

Answer 2

Xo, he is being very selfish and boring. There is nothing like seeing the look of satisfaction on a womans face when i am going down her. If this guy refuses to give you oral pleasure i would cut off giving it to him and see how he likes it. If he still won't do it, then id consider dumping him if I were you.

Answer 3

mmm...oral...my fave. I would either shave or stay very trimmed. Nothing bites more than pubies in your mouth. This is going to be explicit...I don't know if you like the 'taste' of yourself. How about you play with yourself in front of him while he watches you. You either have a taste or let him taste you off your fingers if that grosses you out. I personally like the taste of myself, but that is just me. I am very sexual...mostly by myself lately. lol.

Maybe ask him if he would like to do 69 position. I like guy on top of me, and vise versa. That way you can both get the most oral satisfaction. Grind his face...if you know how to spray, that is even hotter.

Answer 4

here's my adive... next time he's totally horny and right before you're about to give him some head you say "ok, me first." Then he knows that he either gives you some pleasure or he doesn't get a ********. I'm telling you, if a guy is horny enough and you ask him at the right moment he'll do just about anything. So make sure you bring it up at a time when he just can't say no. Good luck.

Answer 5

Well 1st try ti use props like whip cream etc and make trail from your mouth to down south and lead head downtown. Also stop giving if you are not receiving and let him know why.

Answer 6

He's sounds a little spoiled and maybe selfish.....Explain to
him what you would like him to do next time you two are intimate. Otherwise, I'd say put the brakes on sex for a while
and see if he comes around. Nothing is worse than having
sex with someone who is selfish in bed.....BORING!!!!!!

Answer 7

omg i love to eat pu$$y your boyfriend is insane. i beg my girl to let me eat it and she says no. tell him lisking pu$$y is a wonderful thing and that it is gods gift to man to be able to lick it without being poisened. i love giving oral to a girl so not all guys dont like ti but some dont because they are afraid of the yummy parts. hope he licks you some day my girl says its great. especialy when you suck a lil bit on the clit they just love that.


enjoy

Answer 8

The next time he wants a BJ, suggest a 69 instead. That way you both can have fun at the same time.

Answer 9

If he absolutely refuses, or brushes you off, you should suspend his privileges. This will get him more attentive to your needs. I'm not a woman, but i think this is the way it goes.

Answer 10

i love going down on a woman...nothing better