How do you get over something you regret so bad. I am 17 and when i was like 11 or younger, I did something i think with some other girl who was younger than me and everyone who knows her, knows that family is the biggest skanks! I feel nasty whenever i remember. I mean they had maggots in their house, she went to the bathroom on the floor and everything else. EW! Sometimes i remember like right now. How do i realize kids do it and just move on from the past? Have any of you done anything with someone nasty in the past and regret it?
2007-01-11 14:16:49 · 6 answers · asked by Ashley T 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
First of all - you were very young. You need to move on and forget what anyone around you thinks. This girl clearly has problems of her own and you should tell anyone who taunts you about this that you feel sorry for her and that you were both very young and they need to find something else to talk about because the topic is dead. You didn't really say what you did but I assume it was of a sexual nature. Don't take part in making fun of her and don't judge her - she can't help being born into the family she was born to.
2007-01-11 14:47:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No but I have lost someone, watched them die and I thought I would never get over it. It took time. It took time and it took me talking to close friends and family about it. If you don't address this past issue it can take ahold of you and your life. By sharing it with me you have opened it up from being a dark secret and that's a big positive step. You have nothing to be ashamed of. All of us have done things we are shamed of, I just choose not to let it control my life.
2007-01-11 22:25:52 · answer #2 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Forget about it. How can you make a life for yourself, if you keep on worrying about the dumb stuff? Move on make it better. And never forget but forget it.
2007-01-11 22:26:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you were just a child and didn't know better. maybe you could think of some kind of ceremony for yourself, like write about it on a piece of paper and then tear it all up or burn it, or some kind of cleansing like that.
2007-01-11 22:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by bellatrix27 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You did that when you were 11! WOW! no wonder she wasn't potty trained.
2007-01-11 22:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by Jamie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bang your head on the wall. juz kidding though
2007-01-11 22:28:42 · answer #6 · answered by wondering?? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋