I feel so alone. I barely have any friends, and the only friends I have are liars. And...?

Question

a lot of ppl call me weird, I've confronted so many ppl, but they don't stop. And my situation at home sucks too. Im also suicidal, but I don't know what to do...can someone pleez help me?...

Answer 1

Just calm down & take a breath.
How old are you?
Ignore the rude answers, email me if u need help -via my 360. I have been in your shoes, mate.

Answer 2

I can help you with advice...
The thing is, everyone feels the way you do now from time to time. Believe me, taking one's own life is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. Thats like trying to fix a flat tire by dropping your car off a bridge. I feel for you babe, and the best advice I can give you is this. Nothing in life can be controlled by you, except where you go from here on.

If you want help, there are people and places specifically designed to get you out of whatever situation makes you feel so sad and unloved. If you are over 18, I suggest moving to a new city and going to college there.

It will remove you from a bad environment, and educate you so that you can afford to feed yourself in the future.

If you are one of those people that dreams of fame and fortune, without having to pay dues (like paris hilton) well all I can say is seek therapy, because that is a pipe dream that will never come true unless you get very rich, very fast.

To this day I have never seen a super fast way to get rich, without making the guy that told you about it even more rich.
It's called a pyramid scheme.

Anyways, back to your problem. Reality is this, if you need help go out there and get it. The people that can help you are not psycic and cannot see into your soul through the phone lines.

PS how old are you? If you are under 18 talk to a school counselor.
What kind of home life do you live in?
can you post a follow up?

Answer 3

First, stop, take a deep breath and think. We all have our moments (some long, some short) where we feel alone. I have felt this way and I have been suicidal and to this day people think I am weird, but those same people admire and respect me for being different.

People can be very cruel at any age, but it's how you approach life that will help you deal with your issues. If people are calling you weird for something that is out of your control, ignore it. If it's within your control AND you WANT to change it, change it.

Make new friends. There's more than one way to make a friend. You have to be willing to open up and be approachable. Friends will ALWAYS accept you for who you are. So look for people who are like you in personality. There are other people around you who feel the same way and maybe you could help each other get through these tough years of your life.

Remember, you can not change other people only yourself and you can not force people to like you, but you can win them over if you are willing to make the effort and if you even want to. Only make the effort for those worthy of your time.

I don't know what your situation at home is like, but no matter how awful it is, you can get past it, but you have to be willing to put in the work. Go see a counselor or priest or some kind of professional whom can help you. It worked for me and it can work for you.

For 10 years of my life I felt alone, I had no real Friends I could talk to, I was suicidal, I Had been abused, molested, made fun of, etc. It was a nightmare, but today I am the happiest I have ever been and I can't even believe that I ever thought about killing myself.

Get some help and stay strong. It will get better.

Answer 4

Sounds like junior high to me. It's tough for everyone... trust me. Junior high is filled with back stabbing, unsympathetic, losers. It will get better once you get to high school. Meanwhile, go to your counselor at school and just talk to him/her about how you feel. They'll have tons of advice for you and can recommend a therapist or someone else to talk to.

Being suicidal is not good... obviously. I had a friend who committed suicide October 2005. It's an easy way out and a permanant "solution" for a TEMPORARY problem. Please PLEASE get some help. I've been there too where I've felt there was no way out. I just kept breathing and had to hope that everything would get better... and it did!!!

If you need to talk to someone right now call the suicide hotline. It's free and as hard as it may be to pick up that phone, it's much easier than, well, you know what. ****1-800-273-TALK****

Just keep breathing girl! Everything will be alright!!!

Answer 5

You know... People who tell you that life is short suck. Those of us who live our lives on the thorns have a completely different perspective. For us, life can be incredibly long.

Nothing I type here is likely to be meaningful or profound. In fact most of your responses will be from people who want you to go see a therapist, clergy person, someone you can talk to and all of these are good and well intentioned suggestions. However, I want to convey something (and will probably fail) that will meet you in your core and where you are - because as you may suspect, I've seen this movie before and happy endings are rare. Here goes nothing...

If you can accept this one truth everything else I want to say will make sense. You are worthy. By your very essence, you have importance and you add something of uncomparable value to the diversity of this world. I suspect that I am directing my comments to a young adult and what I want you to know above all other things is that where you walk I have been. The simple (and often not so simple) act of surviving may create in you the voice that will save someone just like you ten, twenty, maybe even thirty years hence.

The arc of the universe is a long one. It's curve is almost imperceptible as you walk along it. But you have to trust me on this one, it bends toward justice. He or she who has suffered much will enjoy much. Those who are enjoying a good life in your graduating class will wind up bald, fat, middle aged insurance salesmen who drink too much, pay a ton of childsupport and live off of credit cards they can never hope to repay. Don't look upon them with envy. For them this is as good as it ever gets. The peaked too soon and shortly after graduation, their best year is behind them.

Those who are a bubble off are the people who go on to create the things that change the world. Matt Stone and Tre Parker from SouthPark are my favorite example. They were the weird kids in their school.

I'm sorry that my hollow platitudes and encouragment can't make the day you will face tomorrow an easier sequence of events. What I hope will give you some confidence is that even in the cold, anonymous wasteland of cyberspace, your simple act of being, and posting was enough to generate a heart felt reponse (in me and probably also in others). You deserve to be happier than you are. You are entitled to a measure of peace. You are worthy of love and respect. I would implore you to continue to play the crappy hand you've been dealt. It may take several years of distance and reflection to find the winning hand came on the turn card.

Answer 6

Listen the only thing you can do is learn to ignore what people thinkand don't care as much what they think. If I cared what people thought of me I'd wanna die too. If you're a tenn it won't be long till you can leave home and start over that's when you meet real people, real friends. I had a horrible time at home I can't go into it on here but you just have to believe and knnow that things do get better you just have to work at it and put up with the bull until you can get out on your own.

Answer 7

Go to the beach, or mountains where you can be alone to think. Try to remember what it was that happened to you as a kid that made you do things deemed "wierd" or out of the ordinary. Remember, almost everyone has had difficult or disfunctional childhoods, and you are completely ok to feel the way you do. If there is anything that comes to your mind about something such as abuse, or neglect, etc., this may have something to do with your behavior. You have to be comfortable with yourself first, so you can shrug off the hateful comments. Also, the fact that everyone you hang out are liars shows that you attract them because you are unsure of yourself, and are prone to be taken advantage of. These people are paracites who latch on to people who don't understand themselves. Once you understand what is making you feel uneasy, it is up to you to learn how to cope with it. You may have to contact a suicide help line if you are on the verge. I have had multiple friends who were suicidal, and they are all alive today, and happy. You WILL make it.

Answer 8

We have a little in common-I was "suicidal" about 10-15 yrs ago cause I was sad & lonely,etc, as of now I'm not suicidal like I was, I only have a few friends & several "aquaintances" but the way I deal with being "alone" is getting out of the house & going places, meeting more people, etc. -good luck.

Answer 9

I've been there, hell I still am! Just try to relax as much as you can. IF YOU FEEL LIKE YOU ARE GOING TO KILL YOURSELF DIAL 911 IMMEDIATELY!! Don't do that to yourself because of other people. Things will get better, no matter how much you think it won't. You can always talk to your school counselor. If possibly ask your parents to take you to the doctor so you can get an antidepressant. Also, I keep a journal, it makes me feel better to rant and rave and get it out of my system. Good luck, be safe and don't let anyone tell your not good enough- you are.

Answer 10

The way i see it is that people who lie to you aren't your friends. I say drop them and get new ones. As for your situation at home, a lot of people have worst lives then you so look on the bright side, at least you have a house to live in.

Answer 11

my god what is wrong child do you need some one to talk to....also friends aren't everything if u can squeak by with a handfull or less then thats all you will need ne way...i understand things get bad but suicie is a cowards way out.....who the hell cares if you r weird i like being weird its my ..thang if you will ...im kinda the crazy white girl at work..but i dont care i think its funny...you need to start looking into the mirror and seeing yourself as a person that isnt gonna take ne **** from anyone....