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I am 16 years old and I had sex with my boyfriend, about 3 days ago. And he didn't use a condom. This is the second time we had unprotected sex. But the first time, he pulled it out before he came. But we were really into it the second time and I told him to keep going. And he ended up busting inside me. I'm really scared that I might be pregnant. And if I am, there is no way I can tell my parents. I would purchase a home pregnancy test but, I don't want to go in the store to buy one and feel like people are judging me just because I bought oneat my age. And, I don't keep track of when I have my period. I just need answers and quick!!! PLEASE HELP!! Thank you.

2007-01-11 14:02:14 · 14 answers · asked by Kim 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

14 answers

Ok, heres what's wrong:
1) Don't keep track of period
2) Unprotected sex
3) unable to tell parents if pregnant.
4) Seemingly unaware of fact that you can get pregnant even if he pulls out due to pre-come.

Are you crazy??? Buy condoms Quit playing Russian Roulette!

2007-01-11 14:08:57 · answer #1 · answered by Kiss My Shaz 7 · 4 0

well of course you could be pregnant with unprotected sex. but the key word is COULD. my boyfriend and I often don't where condoms, I've had one scare and we've been together for long over a year. It does help to track your period. All I can say is it was only 3 days ago DON'T start worrying about it now, because that will just make the next month drag on and on. If your period does not come, do not let your pride stand in the way of keeping you and your possible baby safe, by not purchesing a pregnancy test. People will judge you, thats the way our society is.

2007-01-11 21:22:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jen J 1 · 0 1

u are the same age i was wen i got pregnant with my son im 21 now n got 2 kids a 4 yr old n a 2 yr old . honestly u cant tell yet but predicting is also a rare chance ! i guess is really all depends on your system n your boy freind one thing that couldve helped slim the chance is peeing n douching rite after sex ..... just wait n c but if u dunt want the baby i suggest u go get a test dony worry what people think they got theyre own skeletons in the closet 2 worry about 2 be judgin u . besides no ones perfect tghats why they made erasers on pencils ..... good luck 2 u

2007-01-11 14:16:25 · answer #3 · answered by bandolera 2 · 0 0

I'm not going to sit here and judge you like most ppl would because who am i to judge you. I'm not going to sit here and lecture you on what you should and should not be doing when most of the ppl on here were doing the same thing at your age wheither it was protected sex or not. I'm just going to be completely honest and real with you. First before you get all scared and freaked out, wait and see if you miss your next period. If you do and do not want to go in the store and buy a test, go to your local clinic and get a free (and more accurate) test. But honey if you are, you are going to have to be honest and tell you parents. I don't know how you parents are but you must be honest with them.

2007-01-11 14:14:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

Yes, you could be pregnant (you know that). That was an irresponsible thing to do for both of you. You need to get a pregnancy test (no one will care how old you are) and take it within the next 2 weeks or so. If you are pregnant you have no choice you will have to tell your parents AND his parents. You made the choice. . . fortunately or unfortunately the rest is up to God.

2007-01-11 14:19:36 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0 0

The test won't do you any good yet. You're too late for the morning after pill, so at this point you're going to have to wait it out. If you don't know when you got your last period, do your best to try to remember or wait about 2-3 weeks before you buy a test. Try to talk to someone that you trust about this, because you seem stressed out. Remember that you aren't alone and didn't get into this situation all by yourself. I wish you the best of luck.

2007-01-11 14:16:18 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2 0

you should check out family history. seriously if your mom or other female family member get pregnant easy then have your bf buy the test i mean its the least he could do right? and as for telling you parents. i dont know them so i cant give good advice and it may not apply but they'd want to know. so they could help you. good luck. oh and dont be fooled just because he pulled out you could've gotten pregnant last time too. until your ready to have a baby or at least buy the test use condoms

2007-01-15 13:56:07 · answer #7 · answered by f1ght3rchik 1 · 0 0

well um hun..you are going to need to get over thinking the people are judging you and get ya azz into a store and see if your pregnant,,if you are, then next step is tellin the baby daddy and then his parents,,for some reason the guys parents always seem to take it a WHOLE lot easier than the guysparents do, then you will have to tell your, but iff he came inside you, there is a HUGE chance that you realli could be pregnant..and if you are you need to get to a gyno fast as you can to start thinking about eitha adoption or watever you need to do for this baby..ABORTION IS NEVER GOOD THOUGH!

2007-01-11 14:08:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

What do you mean "Could I be pregnant". I hope it felt really good because you could have just screwed up the rest of your life. How can people be so stupid. It just amazes me that people put themselves in that kind of situation then go into a panic later. I don't know why people don't start thinking about the consequences of there actions. They only think about the moment like "We were really into it" is a good excuse to get knocked up.
I just feel for the child.

2007-01-11 14:41:59 · answer #9 · answered by Sarah G 1 · 2 0

yes, theres a chance of you becoming pregnant since he came in you.
im your age and i've had moments when i thought i was pregnant, and i bought a home pregancy test.
i was scared about what they would think aswell.. but its not that bad.
and it'll be a relief to know if you are or arent pregnant because of the test.
so, do whats best for YOU and buy it.
it'll only take a few seconds, just grab it, pay for it.. and thats it!

2007-01-11 15:57:15 · answer #10 · answered by Lor. 2 · 1 0

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