on new years eve we kissed and stuff and now we like dont talk at all i meen i really wanna be friends with him agian....its like i lost him....and when i call him i think it bugs him. what should i do.....
Cortneyy
2007-01-11 13:56:49 · 12 answers · asked by CortneyLynn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
give it a little time and then remind him why you two were friends in the first place. What did you do together that made your friendship special or important to both of you?
If he can't get over it, it's a shame but there's nothing you can do about it. Lesson learned, you must think of these things in advance.
2007-01-11 14:00:27 · answer #1 · answered by hthr_1974 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you will have to talk to him and find out whats going on.i had a guy who was my best friend and we kissed 2 times in like in the 6yrs we were best friends..well guess what when it came to the 3rd kiss well we have been together now for 13 yrs and 2 beautiful daughters together.so i think you should really talk to him if he isnt going to be the first to say anything then you do.especially if you still want him as your best friend.maybe the reason he hasnt talked to you is maybe he has stronger feelings for you than just a best friend type maybe its you that feels that way..either way you need to talk about what happened and whats going on with your friendship and where that stands when you call him your not bugging him maybe things feel a little uncomfortable for him but just come out and ask him what is going to happen ..best of luck to you ...
2007-01-11 14:05:55 · answer #2 · answered by kelly s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's one of your best friends then you should be able to talk with him. Ask him what's going on. Does he still want to be friends or if he wants something more than that. Unfortunately, kissing a best friend does change things and they won't ever be the same. Sorry :(
2007-01-11 14:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by WiccaWoman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him some space for a while, he is probably trying to sort out his feelings for you. After a couple of weeks, if he hasn't contacted you go up to him in person and tell him you would like to talk about what happened and how you just want to be friends.
2007-01-11 14:00:17 · answer #4 · answered by doofynic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Always a big mistake...now things are awkward. All you can do is bring it all out into the open with him. Tell him it was a mistake, but you don't blame him and tell him that you want to put it behind you and be friends again.
2007-01-11 13:59:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont ever flat out lay things on the table by saying"what happened " or "we dont hang out no more" it will make it worse...so instead he might feel weird but you have to make it comfotable 4 the both of you...create a situation where you and hm have been before and act only slighty closer to him than usual that way you avoid suspesion..then simply make the conversation fall into the category of love (and if you dont love him then the category of friendship)
2007-01-11 14:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by Romeo C 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him your done with that. It was just a happy new year kiss nothing more. Tell him you miss his friendship and he needs to get over himself and be your best friend again.
2007-01-11 14:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by tamlovinlife2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring it up...tell him you don't know what to think of what happened and you don't want it ruining your friendship. By not talking about it maybe he is feeling awkward. tell him you miss him as a friend.
2007-01-11 13:59:33 · answer #8 · answered by chemky1 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is scared about what happened and doesn't know how to approach you about what happened..so leave a voicemail and hope for a response! =)
2007-01-11 14:01:54 · answer #9 · answered by MoMoChan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he didn't like the kiss, or he felt tht it was wrong.
If you can, you should move onto someone else who really cares about you.
Shawna. =)
2007-01-11 14:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋