i am going to a winter dance at my school, where there is grind dancing taking place. can anyone tell me if it is normal to get an erection while doing this, and do girls expect and accept that?
2007-01-11 13:27:58 · 34 answers · asked by big guy 27 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
it is normal
2007-01-11 14:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by boobird 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on many factors including whether or not the people at your school are conservative or open with their sexuality. If you get an erection, just let the girl you're with know that you're not being a pervert (in so much as you can avoid be a pervert while grinding), and not trying to sexually harass her. She'll probably accept it, and almost surely expect that it might happen.
2007-01-11 13:33:55 · answer #2 · answered by Hamster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i guess it's normal, and some girls expect it and others dont just like some girls would accept it and others wont. If i were a guy and was worried about that i would just stay away from all the grinding.
2007-01-11 13:33:16 · answer #3 · answered by Hanah M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I speak for myself when I say that I would accept it if I was grinding with someone and they got an erection, but all women/girls are different. Yes, it's normal.
2007-01-11 14:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Meria 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it's normal, no girl I know will expect it or accept it if it is a school dance.
2007-01-11 13:30:29 · answer #5 · answered by Jenny M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok masterbate like crazy before- get all the horny out- ok so if its a HOT GIRL then ya expect and erection and if shes wearing a skirt- ya god luck. some girls do and dont- if shes a hooker popular girl than she will cuz guys dance with her alot so ya so but if shes ugly then shes be like wtf get that skick theng out near me. heres some tips
1. dont necceslary rub against her like intensly
2. dont think of what she looks liek naked, how hot she is, how good she looks. focus on the song and on other things
3. wear tight underwear so it wont be noticible ya if you get one its gunna hurt but is worth it
i bet theres some ppl that tape it to there leg
good luck brother and just remember- keep about 1-2 inches off her ass because if your 100% rubbing against her ur in for a ride
and if she starts to move away- LET GO- if u still dance ur gunna get a bad reputation.have a GOOD TIME
2007-01-11 14:22:14 · answer #6 · answered by harry rav 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to recieve one when you are in close contact with women
some girls will accept it, it depends on how they are dancing with you, if they are rubbing themselves seductively to you, then most likely they will be expecting it
you shouldn't worry about it so much, if you continue to move your body then it is less likely to happen, also make sure you don't have to pee any time soon, as liquid in the bladder will make it rise easier
2007-01-11 13:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by André S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is quite normal...but when you are dancing, stand back a little bit so that you are not rubbing against the girl. She may not like it. Then again she may think its funny and start telling her friends about it and they will tell two friends and so on and so on.
2007-01-11 14:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by Adrienne C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How are you not supposed to get an erection doing that? Girls that age don't fully understand male sexuality; they may be aware of it and "accept" it but they don't react the same way, so they don't understand it. If it were me, I would not participate.
2007-01-11 13:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by The First Dragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is normal, just do not wear sweat pants to the dance, nobody likes to be saluted on the dance floor.
2007-01-11 13:31:28 · answer #10 · answered by Blot 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a really common worry with teens...there's some good information on that subject on the link below.
2007-01-11 13:31:16 · answer #11 · answered by Shannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋