my friend id dating this guy and he has been slipping in betwen us for 3 months and lately she has been writing me notes that sounds like shes mad at me, and even says that shes taking his side, he said that he wouldnt come around my friend when im around so lately she has been ignoring me! i dont know what to do, im goin crazy, we have been best friends forever
ps: please dont say move on, because she is a really good friend, but shes not going to dump this guy! i need so much help please answer sincerely!
2007-01-11 13:13:06 · 12 answers · asked by courtney 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
by the way were only freshman in highschool
2007-01-11 13:26:28 · update #1
Young girls tend to fall apart emotionally when they get involved with guys.. Your friend probably still loves you but is torn between her hormones and you.. Trust me, the best thing you can do is remain her friend, even if you have to keep your distance for awhile... believe me this relationship probably will be one of many for her and you too someday... He obviously is a controlling person and has a hold on her right now.. When it does fall apart she will need you more than ever and be very sorry for keeping you at such a distance... Just be there if she needs you and don't take it personally.. She will come around and if you really love your friendship you will be there for her.. Your in a really crappy position, but many friends go through this... Ever hear the saying "Blinded by love" Well this is a classical example... Tell your girl friend that you will be there if she needs you and TRY not to take her actions as rejection of you but as the fact that she is going through what all people go through... Growing up and away.. Chin Up... you will survive this..
2007-01-11 13:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her without showing the drama and take out any emotion you maybe having. She obviously feels her relationship is more important than what you may have at this time. If you are "good friends" she'll come around. Just let her know if she needs to talk sometime , she can count on you.
2007-01-11 13:21:22 · answer #2 · answered by mjwhite64 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is crazy but us women do this all the time. Forgetting that man will come and go but what I want you to do is give them there space and when she wants to come around be nice but don't get into there busy. Sooner or later she will see who is really there for her but if he turns out to be a really good guy if yall love her like yall say yall do then yall will work it out. She should'nt have to chose becaues you know and everyfriend knows that you can't give the other friend what that man is giving them
2007-01-11 13:23:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her of your concerns.. emphasize about how you love her and need her friendship and how you dont want to lose her over a guy. Be persistant about this and soon she will come around (If she is a good friend!)
Good luck!
2007-01-11 13:19:05 · answer #4 · answered by InLoveandWar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are getting in between them... She wants to be with/around him and YOU are the 1 that is getting in the way. Face It. She has a boyfriend to do things with and you feeling left out. Get your own boyfriend, that'll cure your problems.
2007-01-11 13:19:24 · answer #5 · answered by Psycomagnet 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk, u need 2 talk but that doesn't help because i have friend problems too but keep tring 2 talk 2 u then she'll get annoyed so she will listen 2 u one day
2007-01-11 13:18:07 · answer #6 · answered by Angel A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go for a little bit and then if she doesnt understand outburst at her and say like u hate her and if that doesn t work then talk if u can and ask her if they can come to some kind of agreement
2007-01-11 13:44:29 · answer #7 · answered by Mitch N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, ask yourself, is she really your best friend if she prefers a GUY over you... and is she worth it? if the answer is still yes, talk to her, tell her how you feel and if she REALLY IS your best friend, she'll drop that guy in a second, or at least talk to him about the problem.
2007-01-11 13:21:03 · answer #8 · answered by ToTaLlY iN lOvE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-07 00:48:13 · answer #9 · answered by vishvanath 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
learn to live with the fact she is going to be with this guy. let her know that you are wrong and want to be freinds again say sorry. you cant pick your freinds b/f or g/f...
2007-01-11 13:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by hurts so good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋