I told my husband yesterday, how much did you pay out of the mortgage since you bought your property. he didn't answer.
I told him that I proberly will be competing with you and buy a new property soon when I go to work, I will be competing with you ( in a humour kind of sense) and I said nicely I will be finishing the price beofre you do( as a competition kind of sense). I blew a kiss in his ear( trying to be funny ) but he suddenly move my hand away from my face, he pinched my lower skin of my cheek and twisted very severly in one direction, is that physical abuse. It is not th e first time he bits me when I winge or he yells at me severly and I didn't stop he will push me out.
2007-01-11 13:01:34 · 6 answers · asked by Summer O 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Provoked or not, that is abuse, and ye should not stand for it! Seek help, counseling....possibly involve the law.
2007-01-11 13:16:07 · answer #1 · answered by ~The Medieval Islander~ 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
He is a brute. He believes that it is okay to hurt women to get them to do what he wants them to do (he believes that women are subservient to men). This is a deeply ingrained belief system that will not suddenly change. All of the stats on violence in relationships show that the aggression and violence increases over time, usually with incidents happening closer together. Unless he undergoes a belief-system conversion, the natural progression is that one member of the two will die because of the violence or the effects of the violence (that includes wreckless driving and drugging, actual attacks, cancer from 'sitting on' the anxiety of being in an abusive relationship, and the suicide-murder thing (when she actually DOES leave him).
Sounds like you have an opportunity to get out early on. It's up to you.
God bless!
2007-01-11 21:11:29 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously can't take a joke very well. It sounds like he's offended that you are rubbing it in his face that you make just as much if not more than he does or contribute more. He is feeling threatened by this. Still NO reason to get physical.
Hit the S.O.B. over the head with something, and keep ur trap shut.
2007-01-11 21:07:45 · answer #3 · answered by Deb 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When facing with someone like that, you need to stop provoking him - even though you said it nicely, it will come across as a put down to him and he will act on it.
You both need to meet with a marriage counselor soon. It will turn to something worst if you don't stop the cycle.
2007-01-11 21:10:23 · answer #4 · answered by childofGod 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r probably very silly and joke in a silly way that makes people angry!!!! thats not the way to joke specially about matters like that
ofcourse he will get angry
silly girl
i would smash u if i was him
2007-01-11 21:59:43 · answer #5 · answered by pari_varparide 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are being totally honest, get out now.
2007-01-11 22:42:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋