2007-01-11 12:52:46 · 12 answers · asked by laafters 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
WAIT FOR YOUR CHOICE IT IS NOT COMPLETED.
2007-01-13 02:10:37 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
May be ur category of being humorous is sarcastic or goofy which ppl pretend to enjoy 4 a moment n then they try avoidin... u thus u end up being a loner so, u need find those ppl who can understand u better & share gud comfort level. never give up being a funster but be aware that u r fun is not another's cause to cry!
2007-01-12 03:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though the sense of humour is an appreciable trait, there is a very little difference between what pleases and what offends, when it comes to make a fun of people or even yourself.
You shall have to introspect and then decide. It could be due to one or all of the following facts:
1. You make a fun of others and reference is made to certain objectionable or personal aspects. Though people may seem to be enjoying your making fun of others but they fear that you might even make a fun of them if they associate themselves with you.
2. You portray yourself as a very casual and comic sort of person when you make a fun of yourself.
3. You might be hurting some people when you are making fun of them.
The watch word is to be more witty than humorous and funny than funster. And this should be efforless & natural.
Hope you understand...
2007-01-11 18:40:02 · answer #3 · answered by sharma.kulbhushan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From one (former) loner to another - let me explain it this way...are you a loner by choice? That is, do you activley follow up on and try to get to know people that you talk to in order to form friendships? I learned this the hard way - any relationship - family, friends, or lovers requires work from all parties involved. When you are chatting with folks, somewhere before the end of the conversation, tell them that you enjoyed talking with them, and that you would love to hang out sometime - ask for thier contact info, and give them yours. Then follow up on it...have something in mind - lunch, afternoon movies - you can invite more than one person, invite 2-3, and just hang - make fun of it! Continue to do that, and before you know it you will have a network of folks who mutually enjoy each others company. (and you will have several friends!) Also, a bit of wisdom from my Father (may he rest in peace)...he always told me that a person who has one BEST friend is lucky indeed. In other words, those sort of people, the ones we bond with to the point that they become our best friend, like a part of our family, are rare. Some people never find this. In my many years upon this earth, I have only seen it 3 times - I have only seen 3 people with tried and true best friends. So that is really saying something - friends come and go....so be prepared for that. Some of the folks that you reach out to in order to hang out will fall off the radar, and that is ok too. Just keep going - network until you get a group that wants to hang out! Have fun with it, and good luck!
2007-01-11 13:10:01 · answer #4 · answered by ST 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chatting or being funny does not fulfill anyone's desire in every aspect. You are in search of something different that may or can satisfy whatever is in you. Better explore you inner self..and see/know what you want. And go from there....
2007-01-11 14:36:34 · answer #5 · answered by jad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are never real. Who is the real you? Plus, nobody want to be with someone who doesn't take anything seriously and jokes all the time. It gets annoying. Try to be funny but real.
2007-01-11 12:56:56 · answer #6 · answered by 1truthseeker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to yahoo answers USA/ polls & surveys. There are some funny people there who have had similar experiances, ask them about it.
2007-01-11 14:13:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you make too much fun and laugh at inappropriate times, people do not like this, or you are around people who take things very seriously
2007-01-11 12:55:59 · answer #8 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u do laugh at the wrong time or dont take some things seriously then dat tells u y.
2007-01-11 22:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by rithika r 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are being "annoying" to people.Don't take this the wrong way, to me nobody is annoying.(accept my little brother..)People just don't like to talk as much as we do.(Yes, I talk a lot too) just don't worry about it!!
2007-01-11 13:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by ░▒▓Mollyஐ▓▒░ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lucky you!
i wish i was funny and life of the party..
maybe you are scaring people away
by talkking to much, and maybe you are
annoying? [ no offense ]
2007-01-11 12:56:31 · answer #11 · answered by krista sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋