All you do is think about them whether you're happy, sad, angry, mad, joyful. Even in the saddest and hurting times that bring laughter to your soul when you see visions of them.
2007-01-11 12:45:30 · 20 answers · asked by Sexytaurusaka305 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
I believe true love to be unconditional. Regardless of anything you will always love that person, you don't have to be thinking about them 24/7. True love is wanting others to be happy, about placing their needs before yours. Here's a simple quote about love which I believe to be true, I'm not to sure on who said it though.
Love is…inexplicable.
In order to love, you must first find faith.
You must be wise to have faith, you must have the ability to trust, be honest with yourself and those around you.
You must understand yourself, your heart and have the ability to be understanding of your love.
Love is the most powerful emotion one can ever endure in every sense of emotion.
Love is not at first sight; because until you know the heart of a person you don’t know them at all…you can’t love what you don’t know. Love is blind to any colour, race, or creed. When you can close your eyes and imagine the meaning of love to a blind soul- and without seeing the person in your life, just hearing their voice, feeling their touch, and having spoken their life, their desires their dreams, and after a friendship has made it’s way between you and this person you can’t literally see- Then and only then you will actually see the real beauty of love. And if you continue to look at this person with your eyes closed, it will be or could be the truest of love.
2007-01-11 16:11:14 · answer #1 · answered by phoenix 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah I agree infatuation or lust. Love has complicated definitions and is so closely related to lust, and faults within ourselves. Sometimes I have felt I reached out to someone mistaking that feeling for love because on missing pieces within my personality that the other person possessed. For instance, if a person possesses more self confidence than I do, I may be completely drawn to them for that piece of me that they fill. When you break it down completely it is not even love, it is a codependancy to make you feel better about yourself. True there is an old sain "I love you not only for who you are, but for what I am when I am with you." and also the whole Jerry Maguire thing, "You complete me." My best advice is to take things very slow, make sure it is not a lust connection based completely on physical attraction and that it is not a codependant issue with insecurities within yourself. Love takes time and friendship is always more valuable that being lovers. I view all relationships as a possible "best friend" and go slowly learning about the person. One day you will wake up and just know that it is love. Good luck
2007-01-11 14:45:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
It feels like your definition of tangible love demands some reciprocation, that's in maximum cases a uncomplicated expectation. Love without reciprocation is stated as "compassion" or "charity." The question you ought to ask your self is, how plenty charity are you keen and able to giving, earlier you do not have something left for your self?
2016-12-12 09:34:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be but it could also be true infatuation. True love is when the love is returned to you as equally as you are giving that love. Unless you are referring to someone you admire and are not in a relationship with. You would certainly be expressing your true love for that individual, the thoughts of whom give you comfort, joy, inspiration and so on. A favorite sister or brother, an old friend, someone in your life who helped you out in a time of need, or just someone you admire and would like to emulate. Love has many forms. And whatever type you are referring to, it sounds very positive for you. That's something to cherish and be thankful for, that someone has made you feel so good!
2007-01-11 13:17:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
People don't know this but to love someone is more like to love the concept of them that you've created in your mind. We create conceptual figures in our heads that represent the people around us in our lives to which are not always clearly accurate.
Sometimes, if we know very little about the said person, our concept of them becomes distorted. You may be infatuated/in love with/lusting for what you imagine or wish that person to be.
This is very dangerous seeing as how your concept of this person can be way off, if you know very little of him/her. Don't get your hopes up.
2007-01-11 14:43:08 · answer #5 · answered by Smokey 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, thats infatuation. The proof is that I can tell right now that you didn't know that persone very long. If you did then the infatuation would cool to a normal level at which you love them but they still annoy you sometimes.
2007-01-11 12:55:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, you would think that. However, love is not measured in how many times in one day you think about the person. It is more tabulated in how they make you feel deep inside. Something in your Brain trips and tells you that you love that person, it id a gut feeling. now id the person feel the same way. you're golden
2007-01-11 12:57:48 · answer #7 · answered by lissaizcool 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
True love is when you put the needs of the other person on the same level as your own needs because you value them as much as you do yourself. You are in love when all your thoughts are idealized about the loved one. They bring gladness to your existence because you see them through rose coloured glasses.
2007-01-11 12:57:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
True love can not be defined in human terms; how much you conditionally love a person may not be the same today as it is tomorrow. Loving unconditionally (which is not physical, mental or emotional) is the only true measure of love.
2007-01-11 12:51:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
True love will be comfortable, safe, trusting, not using someone you love to make yourself feel better. A true love relationship is based on two humans who have found a lover, a friend, a safe place to fall and very importantly to be yourself and still be loved for who you are to them. Your feeling are not at that level my dear human.
2007-01-11 15:02:57 · answer #10 · answered by Lesha a Canadian. 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋