My friend is cheating on her husband?

Question

My friend is married with two young sons.She told me that she has been having sex with 3 different individuals behind her husbands back.I didnt tell my partner but the other day another friend told my partner and he has gone mad.He said he is going to tell my friends husband as he needs to know.I am lost and dont know what to do.Has anyone else been in a similar situation?

I told my boyfriend I knew about it but didnt want to get involved.

Answer 1

yes i have i told my sister and the only reason i did was because of disease i did not want her to die cause he was a creep and he was her husband not boyfriend. would i do it again? NO with a big capital N show this to your husband please. the ramifications of being the bearer of bad news is not rewarding. tell him to ask himself "what do i gain by telling this person this" all i can say is blessed are the peacemakers.

Answer 2

Gosh thats bad well if she is a good friend of yours just tell her either she stops or your telling him he has the right to know wouldn't you want to know if it were you husband doing that to you? And with 3 different people just makes it that whole lot worse thats really not good she could bring home STD's and give it to her hubby and he doesnt deserve that his innocent and the truth always has a way of coming out and before you know if she will be trying moves on your husband so sit her down and tell her its wrong and that she herself should be the one to tell her husband if she is not happy in her marriage then rather leave him and then do those things if she wants to be married then she must stop thats why you get married so you can spend your life with that one person you love. Good luck its a tough situation :{

Answer 3

Tell your friend that somebody told your partner. And you would never betray her trust. And your partner plans on telling her husband.

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Tell your friend to break up w/her husband if she's not ready to be married. It doesn't make since for both of them to be unhappy.

Answer 4

if i were you id stay away from here and try to keep out of it her husband will find out soon enough
do u really want to be the 1 to break her kids hearts
who knows she might stop if you let her know you dont agree and stop talking to her
try and explain to your man that its not his place but if hes adimant on telling so be it she should have thought about the consequences before she started putting it about

Answer 5

Your boyfriend needs to learn to keep his moth shut. Your friends husband might know and be turning a blind eye to it for his own reasons. Keep out of it and be there to help him if he ever needs it (while swaering blind you knew nothing about it.)

Answer 6

Being Cheated is NOT OK! you are cheatin her husband to by not telling him. You need to tell your friend either she tells her husband or you are. no one deservese that crap.

I hope he divorces her skanky *** and moves on!

Answer 7

Girl u better stay out of it or u will lose ur friendship. when her husband finds out dont let it be ur blame cause thats what is going to happen if u get involved

Answer 8

Just one question .... if your partner was having liberal sex behind your back on this scale, wouldn't you want to know?

However tough this sounds, relationships are not to be played with like this and she deserves no respect here.

Answer 9

It seems your friend's a tart, and I don't blame your partner. I would suggest that you tell him you knew, but thought it was'nt really your business so didn't mention it to him .

Answer 10

does your partner know what you know if not stay quiet there is a minefield opening or you may be accused of the same thing because you did not tell your partner warn your girlfriend that your partner has been told from someone else so she does not thinks it you who has told