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Ok people I have a girlfriend in which she says that she is pregnat at the moment, we took 2 pregnancy test to see if both would come up as positive, meanwhile these past 2 years we have been having unprotected sex and all of a sudden she is pregnant from viewing the test. She had 2 std's of chlamydia and goneria which one of them was past on to me chlamydia, the doctor at care now stated that her tubes might be scared and she might not be able to concieve a child, she wants a baby but I dont, reason why is family mafia,trafficing money for my uncles and I owe allot of debt to people. she is past dew on her period about 6 days, in which case this has happened before where she was late on her period, I even took a pregnancy test and it came up as positive which makes no sense to me and it was a digital one that simply says pregnant or not pregnant, I have had a miscarriage with another female in the past and I have not seen any symptoms of pregnancy like Ive seen before, she over reacts

2007-01-11 11:28:57 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting Pregnancy

she over reacts allot about stuff just to draw attention to her, im on the verge of breaking up with her dew to some family issues and other aspects etc. all im wanting to know is how come when I took the pregnancy test it showed positive and I am cleared of chlamydia and im sure she still has it we have not engaged in sexual contact ever since Ive been cleared nor do I intend to, also does having goneria and chlamydia do anything to a fetus that is producing or to pregnancy, I really need mature experienced advice people !!! thanks again GOD BLESS YALL :)

2007-01-11 11:33:59 · update #1

FOR YOUR INFORMATION PEOPLE I DID NOT CONTINUE HAVING SEX WITH HER AFTER I FOUND OUT SHE HAD 2 STD's, I JUST DONT THINK SHE IS PREGNANT< PLEASE NO SMART REMARKS IM A GROWN MAN !!!!!
I LOVE CHILDREN AND ALL ITS JUST THAT PEOPLE DONT UNDERSTAND MY LIFE STYLE OF HUSTLING, TRAFFICING MONEY AND ALL, THIS HAS HAPPENED BEFORE AND WE WENT TO A DOCTOR IN WHICH SHE WAS NOT PREGNANT MAYBE THE FETUS WAS FLUSHED OUT WHO KNOWN THANKS ONCE AGAIN

2007-01-11 11:39:34 · update #2

7 answers

Hi,
I've just read this post. If you have been cleared of chlamydia and you're sure she still has it, so you therefore haven't had sex and at the same time she has fallen pregnant, the baby can't be yours - unless she fell pregnant before you were treated for the 'clap' (chlamydia).
Also, if she has chlamydia, I'm unsure whether she can be treated for this whilst pregnant, and if not, the baby will be born fine, although with a temporary condition of chlamydia him/herself. The symptoms for the baby will be gunky stuff on the eyes, similar to the condition of conjunctivitus.
Chlamydia can cause a woman's tubes to be scarred, so she must have been treated/or just lucky to have conceived before it resulted in too much scarring.
If her tests were positive (x2) then she's definately pregnant. You can get incorrect negatives, but never an incorrect positive.
You really need to talk to her about your feelings, as you really don't sound prepared to stand by her. As a result of having unprotected sex, you have just added another single parent child to the world. I hope that you will be a man and at least take some responsibility. I understand your working and personal life environment isn't one where a child should be involved, so you have MANY decisions to make.
Goodluck man and try not to be selfish.

2007-01-11 15:03:59 · answer #1 · answered by montanasamra 1 · 1 0

Ok, if you haven't had sex with her and she is pregnant, that would mean the baby isn't yours. You really shouldn't have been having unprotected sex with anyone if you didn't want a kid. Gonorrhea(sp??) and chlymedia(sp??) won't hurt the baby while she's pregnant, but she will have to have a c-section, if she does not take the medicine to clear up the infections. Lastly, I have no idea why the pregnancy test came up positive for you, but sometimes the tests are defective. You need to get her to a clinic, so she can get treated for her STD's and get some prenatal care.

2007-01-11 11:34:37 · answer #2 · answered by Aaliyah & Natalie's Mommy 6 · 1 0

Have her go take a blood test. Its the most effective way to know for sure. I have known people in the past to take preg tests and they are postive when they arent really pregnant. But take a blood test to be sure. Have her tell her doctor she thinks shes pregnant and they will have her take a blood test. If shes not then i would suggest a condom. Im not bein a smartass but its just the smart thing to do so hopefully u would learn your lesson, you are very lucky u got 2 things u can get rid of and not AIDS! so be safe!

2007-01-11 11:45:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

i think she should see a doctor to make sure. because pregnancy test are 99.9% correct. when i take the test i normally use two on the same day. one in the morning and one at night to make sure. and if you have an extra one I'd wait a week till i take another one to really make sure everything is correct. from what you are saying maybe her fluids are a little different and the test detects things differently. a lot of weird things can happen so i would highly recommend taking her to the doctor and every test and every time she spots or anytime something unusual happens take notes and tell the doctor.

2007-01-11 11:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by Ms Cancer Crab 2 · 0 0

Sorry buddy. She sounds preggo to me. The only way you can get a false positive on a pregnancy test is if she miscarried the baby. Otherwise if its postive she is pregnant, especially if you spent the money on a digital one.

2007-01-11 11:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by MamaLady 2 · 0 0

2 STD
and you stayed with her((shakinh my head)) at you..
bring her butt to the doc. have reg test done
if it come up pos. your going to be a daddy
if neg. please you need to get away from this
girl
before you get something you can'y cure with med.....

2007-01-11 11:39:17 · answer #6 · answered by PEREZ 1 · 0 0

There is this saying you must know. WHY MUST YOU TAKE RISKS. "PREVENTIION IS BETTER THAN CURE"

2007-01-11 11:37:18 · answer #7 · answered by do you smell..... what's coo 4 · 0 0

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