Do you feel that the women of today are lazy in compared to the older generation who knew there place in the?

Question

home. This generation dont know how to look after there husbands/partners. They expect there partners to go and work all day while they sit on there fat bums watching TV and getting fat. They dont do any housework and expect there husband to come in from work and do all the housework and look after the kids while they go out to the bingo. Women today dont have any respect for there husbands. I say bring back victorian values. My friend is married to a girl from the Phillipines and when he snaps his fingers she jumps. The house is always spotless he never has to lift a finger and she keeps herself looking good for him. All women should be like this in my opinion. I know there is a few good women left in the western world but most of them are just lazy, fat bit*hes. I would like the opinion of other guys on this subject. I think most men will think the same as me with the exception of the hen pecked weaklings who are to scared to speak out against there fat, lazy so called wives.

Some of you lazy bit*hes out there seem to think I am a lazy taxi driver. I actually own 3 taxi companies with over 200 drivers working for me that I built up from nothing. Also my friend in the Phillipines who is married to a girl from there did not buy her as some of you are claiming. They met there in a nightclub. She is not his slave and loves doing everything for him. This question is not for women it is a UK male only question.

Answer 1

Oh yes I have to agree here. I would say 80% of young women today both here in the UK and in the USA are very lazy. They expect the husband to do everything while they all sit on their fat bums stuffing their faces with chocolate. They make out they do everything in the house and look aftre the kids and do this and do that but the truth of the matter is they just sit there all day watching daytime television getting fat and think they are hard done by. It is all changed days from your mother or grandmothers generation now these ladies new how to look after their husbands and keep the house clean and tidy and have the meal on the table at exactly 6pm. They would spend all day making a good meal from scratch. Todays women stick something in the microwave for a few mins then claim they had been cooking that all day. They are nothing but liars and cheats. They tell you that the shopping came to £150 for the week when in fact it only came to £100 and they have spent £50 on themselves. I have got my wife well trained she does what she is told, I am in total control of our money. I do the shopping to make sure whatever the weeks shopping comes to I only pay for that amount. She cleans the house up to my expectations and looks after our children. I let her go out once a month with her friend for a couple of hours and she is very thankfull to me for letting her do that. I am lucky I have got a wife who is in the 20% but in my opinion all women should be trained to be like that. These women who speak out against you on this forum should be whipped in my opinion to bring them back into line. They are lazy bi*ches and should learn to obey and be brought into line. I say the day we let them have the vote and burn their bras was a bad thing.

Answer 2

You shouldn't generlize women. I'm not going to generlize men and call them all unappreciative pigs just because of your comments.

Take me for instance - I am married (we've been together for 4 years), 2 boys (6yrs and 11 months), I work 5 days a week - 12 hours a day. Some of those days, I have to get up around 5 am so I can drop my kids off at my mother's if hubby is working. I make more than he does (not that this matters AT ALL). I also do most of the heavy cleaning (bathroom, scrubbing, laundry, changing linens, etc) and I take care of all the finances.

Is my husband lazy? No, not at all. Most of the time I don't give him a chance to do things. Could he do more? Sure, but couldn't we all.

Just because you can't find a real woman (gee, I wonder why??), doesn't mean we don't exist. Maybe you need to look into changing YOUR attitude. I don't do what I do because my husband makes me or expects it, I do it of my own accord because I refuse to live like a pig or ruin my credit over late bills.

Answer 3

maybe you just havent found the right one, because there is not a woman in this world that would want you, and you can not say all women are lazy, fat, , there are some out there that work along with the husband, comes home clean and cooks, and for your friend that is married to a phillipines girl. good for him, does he have a collar on her, the way i see that he treats her like a dog. snap his finger and she jumps. but anyways. before you get married to any girl you should know how she lives. so that is that person fault if he marrys her then. but there are some woman that does exactly like you say.but there are more woman that works just as hard as a guy and even more.

Answer 4

What the hell kind of women do you know?! Come to my house it is spotless you can give it the white glove test even ABOVE the doorways there is no dust. My kids are taken care of , dinner is cooked, bills are paid and we respect EACH OTHER. But there is NO WAY IN HELL I will jump if he snaps his fingers. I have my own mind and I was raised to be independent where as most women of the Philippines were raised to be dependent on their husbands and to act as servants. Believe me his life behind closed doors isn't as perfect as you want to think it is. As for you saying we are fat the ONLY man I keep myself looking good for is my husband and that will never change. You can even ask my husband and he'd agree with all that I have said here. As for the TV comment the only amount of time I spend watching TV is when he and I watch it together after I put the kids to bed. Notice I said "I". I have a 13yr old terminally ill daughter and a 7 month old son {I take care of them BOTH by myself} my days or nights are not easy there is barely any time for me to sit down and relax so how dare you even assume that all women are how you make them out to be. Not to mention I worked full time as a clinical psychologist until my child was diagnosed as terminally ill and I STILL had a spotless house

Answer 5

You have to earn respect, if you think of women as a servant then you are living in the dark ages. My sister has to work full time, she earns more money than her husband, she has to take the baby to a child minder at 7am while her husband is still in bed. She is expected to do everything while he just goes to work. He won't even change a nappy. If you want to live in the past then men should not allow the women to work! You can't have it both ways. How many of these Philippine women will work after they have kids? none. Also with the fat thing, how many men have I seen with a beer belly? lazy fat slobs who let themselves go after they obtain a wife. If we can't get a Brad Pitt then why should you all get an Angelina Jolie? If your wife is lazy then maybe you should of found this out before you married her! I certainly wouldn't walk down the aisle with a slob.

Answer 6

Hmm, this is wrong on so many levels

a) who plays bingo besides the over 65 anyway??
b) Look after yourself you're not a child
c) You seem to be only able to get these "lazy fat bitches" then maybe there is something wrong with you besides being a male pig - are you so fat, ugly, and stupid that you can only get the same in a woman?
d) "met him in a nightclub", come on!! Oldest trick in the book, these woman want a ticket out of their country!!! It's as good as buying her except he's too stupid to realise that he really is buying her!

Most men won't think like you, so wake up!!!

Thanks for this quesiton, made my afternoon interesting.

Answer 7

Well if we did go back to old fashioned values then my husband should not let me go out to work. I have a 1 year old and 3 year old, I clean the house, do the washing, everything, he doesn't lift a finger. If men want it one way, why should I also go out to work to pay the mortgage?? now that's not fair. I told him I'd get a full time job but he would find it too hard looking after the kids, let alone himself! my partners mother looks after them so I can go to work. He doesn't even pay the mortgage. so what is he there for?

And by the way, buying a woman from the phillipines is just SAD. Can't get a woman so he has to buy one.

Well do you know what, why don't you just not get married?? You don't have to moan then do you. If you talk about women then they should be allowed to answer. Answer to the question:
DON'T GET MARRIED, or divorce the lazy fat b*tch that you are married to.

Answer 8

You cannot be serious. Let's take a look at women of the past: They stayed at home all day and raised the kids. Men in the past went out and worked and brought home the bacon.
Now let's look at today: I don't know about you, but I don't know not one woman who does not work outside of the home. So exactly why should women work outside of the home, then come home and cook and clean while her husband/bf sits in front of the TV with a beer?
When I was pregnant, I worked two jobs, was enrolled at University of Phoenix online, and when I wasn't working or studying, I was taking care of my one-year-old. And occassionally, I got some sleep. Yet my husband, who was between jobs quite a few times during my pregnancy, would complain because I wasn't cleaning and doing laundry. He would say things like, "Well, yeah, you work two jobs, you're in college, and you take care of the baby, but that's ALL you do"! But women are the lazy ones? I think that men today are the one's who are lazy. They expect the same respect men of past generations got, but they don't want to work for it; they think they deserve it just for being born with balls.

Answer 9

Any woman who jumps when a man snaps his fingers is no better than one who won't. Who wants a woman with no individuality and no backbone? If you long for a good woman I would suggest that you first of all work on yourself because you have a very negative outlook. Alot of woman are hard working women with happy husbands, happy kids and a clean house. Maybe you should take a closer look because you seem to only have one eye open.

Answer 10

First of all, don't expect to be treated that way by referring to women as bit*hes. When you give respect, you get it. And I hate to admit it, but you're right. Women these days don't know how to treat their husband. She always has her hand out, but don't want to do anything. But don't get it twisted, so does he. If a man goes out to work all day and is bringing home the money to pay all the bills, the woman should make sure the house is clean, make sure food is cooked, and make sure the kids are taken care of. It's 50/50. If the woman doesn't have to worry about money, the man shouldn't have to worry about his home. You both should take pride in your appearance and should satisfy each other in the bedroom. It's hard work, but it's only as hard as you make it.