my best friend in the world is on the phone with me crying her eyes out over some jerk guy, and i don't know what else i can say to her to cheer her up?
2007-01-11 11:13:40 · 13 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
we live an hour and a half apart from each other so going to her is not an option. ive agreed with her and now i've just run out of things to tell her. i hate hearing her so upset
2007-01-11 11:20:40 · update #1
Dont say anything just listen, Tell her tha tyou are there for her no matter what. And just agree with her, even if she is wrong, If that is what you are just trying to do is make her feel better
2007-01-11 11:20:55 · answer #1 · answered by bob 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look tell her that sometimes life breaks us but we have to be strong and this guy is really a jerk because he dumped her he didn't see how spacial she was (every girl is spacial in her own way) and that she is not the loser here.He is and that he lost the chance of his life she should cry those tears will help that proves that she is very spacial her but at the end when she meets somebody else better than this guy she will realize how much she gain from all this
2007-01-11 11:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time really...most of the times its the other party who can see how bad the guy is when there is a relationship. Be there for her & start go out again w her a lot..
As time goes by, she will get over it. When she meet someone new, someone hotter & obviously not a jerk, she will realize that she is wasting her time & tears for the previous loser..
2007-01-11 11:20:29 · answer #3 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try to cheer her up. Just let her talk and ask her about her feelings. She repeat herself alot, but sometimes just talking it over makes it better. There's nothing better than a friend who will listen. Hopefully, someday when you need an ear, she be there for you too.
2007-01-11 11:17:59 · answer #4 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't want a solution; she wants you to just listen to her.
The best thing you could do right now is listen to her and then repeat what she just told you so that she feels she's been heard.
That's it.
2007-01-11 11:20:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
let her cry its just a part of life everyone goes through i remember the first girl i cried over and know i realise she wasnt really worth it
2007-01-11 11:18:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just listen to her....let her say what she needs to say...agree with her A LOT! She's not really lookin for you to say anything, just listen.
2007-01-11 11:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by Sharlala 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crying at times is good for you
but just be there for her and listen to her
and tell her it WILL be OK, there are many guys who would love to be her boyfriend, good guys too!
just be there for her
good luck
2007-01-11 11:42:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be a good listener. she needs a friendly ear right now. i hope she feels better. good luck to you. take care
2007-01-11 11:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Hello Kitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go over to her place!
bring ice cream!
bring jack daniels!
watch cheesy 15 year old movies on TNT!
2007-01-11 11:17:03 · answer #10 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋