my husband is acting wierd...?

Question

part 1: my husband and i are seperated, his choice, he moved out, and i am 8 months pregnant with his baby.

part 2: i have a male friend whom my husband knows is interested in me coming into town today.
we are just friends but my husband does not know that.

part 3: normally, everyday i hear form my husband even if i don't want to he still texts or calls. today i haven't heard anything form him. no text no call, nothing. i know my husband drives by my house to check on things at night sometimes tellingme that he worries about me. so what is this weird behavior. why is he all the sudden keeping his distance. is he secertly trying to say that he doesn't care or is he playing the mocho man acting like it doesn't bother him when it does. what do you think?

Answer 1

Your husband left you while you were pregnant. That doesn't say much for him right off the bat. Then you say that he "drives by to check on things at night". Sounds a bit like stalking to me. That would make me uncomfortable. Sounds like he might regard you as some sort of posession that nobody else can have. He wants to know what you are up to.

He will be checking on you when your male friend is in town. You may not know about it but he will.

Your husband sounds confused, immature, and selfish. He sounds very young. It all sounds very sad. Your baby deserves better, don't you think? Always be thinking of your child first.

I'd be concerned if I were you. None of this sounds good. I would possibly be concerned for your safety. He is not calling you because he is angry. Be careful.

Good luck.

Answer 2

Do not text, call or speak to him until he gets his sh*t together. You shouldn't be worrying about him. He should be worrying about you. He moved out. It's really, really difficult - but guys normally don't want what they can have easily. Make it more difficult. Keep any conversation brief. Change the locks. Go out with girlfriends (or guy friends - he made the decsion that it's none of his business the day he left.) Stay busy. Living well is the best revenge. Always be coming and going. Don't tell him you love him - even if it kills you. Let him worry that he has lost you. Soon you'll be getting flowers and begged to let him back in. Then you can decide if that is what you want.

Answer 3

You said you have a male friend.I hope he just a friend at least for now. I think a pregnant women sleeping around with another man besides the baby father is dirty, and nasty. No other man should be up in you except the father of the baby. I hope your listen to me. What you do after you give birth that's up to you. F U C K your friend all you want. But just remember its easy for a women to get pregnant right after birth. My husband use to drive by the house everyday for a long time to check on me. Even though he was with other women who I call a pig of a women. Anyways he would do the same. I use to leave the porch light on for him. And when I talked to him I told him that's why I keep the porch light on. I know hes driving by. After a while they just stop. I mean really whats the point any more. There not with you. It can mean a lot of things. Trust me he will call.

Answer 4

I think you may be breaking up. He's gotten comfortable with being away from you. Don't take it hard. I don't know the details of the separation, just the behavior afterwards. If you told us what led to it, it might be easier to determine. Just don't worry now about it. Take care of yourself and the baby. I mean I would he would at least call to see how everything is with the baby, let's hope he doesn't turn out to be a bad parent, or a careless one. Good luck

Answer 5

If you have to ask these questions then it shows why you are separated. Just ask him. Be honest and communicate. Don't guess or take a point of view because you think he feels a certain way.

Couples are always wondering what the other is thinking; ask them; it's good communication.

Answer 6

He's possessive and may be trying to get proof of infidelity to justify a divorce. Even though the guy is just a friend, you haven't let him know this but should.

It truly sounds like you are both playing games.

Answer 7

He wants to catch you red handed! He'll be by, it'll be later at night when you might be up to something.

Anyone that leaves a pregnant wife that late in a pregnancy is an idiot. If he was going to leave you, he should have at least had the decency to help in the months to come.

Answer 8

you two are seperated because it was his choice but still he talks with you every day or texts everyday. why did you two seperate? if it was another woman most likely the other woman left him and he wants you again. or he left cuz of the baby which makes him a irresponable jackass. but i dont know why u two are seperated so thats just guesses. what i think is that you two need to go to a counseler and talk it out cuz it sounds like you both still care for each other. i also think the two of you are acting like your in high school. my advice talk with him or else you will be raising the baby by yourself and the baby will suffer cuz the two of you obivisly dont talk. and this other guy your friends with is just trouble right now, but good luck on the matter

Answer 9

Hate To Say This Tell Him To Get A Life

Answer 10

First of all CONGRADS on the baby.

Talk to your husband. Tell him how you Feel.

* Why the distance all the sudden.

Hmmmm check his clothes....check inside the car...

A man is a man. They'll always act macho-even though they might not be man enough.

Ever thought he might be cheating on you.?

check what's going on before you make a move with his friend.

BEST OF LUCK