my bf and i are perfect for each other but he is saying that we need to take a break to do our own things..mainly to finish studying.this means we wont see each other much anymore and get to talk less...there is a posibility tht he might move to another country to study..says things will be the same ...im trying to be ok with it but its soo hard....wht do i do?
2007-01-11 11:11:37 · 12 answers · asked by pixie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
hes telling you that because its just as hard for him to let go of you but its something that has to be done for his future which is important. if you love someone set them free , if they come back to you it was meant to be.
2007-01-11 11:15:44 · answer #1 · answered by sissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance relationships don't have a good reputation. Sorry.
You are perfect for each other right now. Things do change with time. If he is telling you that he needs a break could mean a couple of things. He is looking for a way out or he is really serious about his studies, considering that he may want to go to another country. My best suggestion would be to be the bigger person. It will hurt, but it would be selfish not to try out the break. If you don't take the break, then if he moves away, it would be more difficult to say goodbye. Taking a break might give you the opportunity to see things more clearly. If he comes back from out of the country and wants to rekindle things and if you still love him, then you were perfect for each other. :)
Good luck to ya.
2007-01-11 19:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by zumi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You think hes perfect but obviously he does'nt feel the same way as you. Looks like he wants out. Dump the D*ckhead. Get your self someone else..
Tell him you've had a little time to think it over, so away you go to your far away land and give him the very best of luck...
2007-01-11 19:18:30 · answer #3 · answered by pop c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should have a long talk with him. See if he's even serious about this relationship because even though you might not see each other, sometimes long distance does work out for the best.
2007-01-11 19:14:22 · answer #4 · answered by craz34jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang in there Pixie, My lass has just split with me for the same reasons. Its joke because I begged her two years ago not to come back into my life an use me till she got her career sorted, well two years have passed an guess what? she used me, doesn't need me anymore ands left, its crap, really.
I totally know how hard it is chicken, fuc!< them its their loss. Chin up, keep attacking.
Mental hugs.
Peace.
2007-01-11 19:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that if you love them let them go....
Personally I think it is a very difficult situation and for each person it is different but when it comes down to it, if it is meant to be then it will be :-)
Good luck and keep your chin up. Everything happens for a reason!
2007-01-11 19:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by mrsprecious1981 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no they wont be the same it will be really different ik i had a bf who just moved to another state and it was so weird and we just had to just be friends if yall really in love they yall go say together regardless but if its just i like let it go and move thers billions of other fine men
2007-01-11 19:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by Jazz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really truley loves you he will be back. Mean while just try to move on. You will get over this. just takes time. concentrait on your studies for a while.
2007-01-11 19:16:32 · answer #8 · answered by redfirecracker2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go with the flow. The old saying goes something like this.
If you love something, let it go.
If it never comes back, its meant to be
but...if it does comes back, its also meant to be.
2007-01-11 19:16:10 · answer #9 · answered by Wendy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think about something else. ask him or email him if he's moving or not.
2007-01-11 19:15:41 · answer #10 · answered by Valerie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋