.....you could pack up and leave any time you felt like it? If I had that ability, I would already have gone!
I have no family at all, not really any friends because he made my life such hell for having them that I gave them up, and I don't have enough money saved to just leave.
He's not hurting me physically, he's not being cruel, he's just being a JERK. I'm not asking for pity, I just wanted to come on here and vent and maybe see if anybody else had been through this and could help me deal with the EMOTIONAL separation that needs to happen.
Thank you all.......
2007-01-11 11:06:12 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
this depressed me
most people don't assume that - its just the way things are done
if your not in love, why waste their time you know?
he made your life hell? because of him you don't see your family or have friends?
thats not okay
family should remain an important part of your life and what is life without friends? true good friends
if he was a true good friend worth your love than he would be cool and let you see the people who make you happy
right now my dad has been diagnosed with a fatal type of cancer and I am more then happy I've had my dad for this long - I wouldn't give up the time we have left for anything
2007-01-11 11:16:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there.
Sorry still am.
I have family,whom i love and would not hurt.
You have mobileability not like me.
I enjoy my own space,when i can get it?is this the same for you?
Walk away and have a new life/with or without another person.
You can have a life without others closeing you in.
A good escape is to read (not romances)but your old childish books that you never got round to reading.
Also some good fiction/Dan Brown,might is a good read.
And get out to your "own local"and meet some people,from time to time.
You are no-ones slave,believe me,growl now and then,see how much the bullies back off(basically they are insecure).
2007-01-11 11:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start an account that you can save every thing you can and put the cash there. Then in the mean time keep it civil and make it work to your advantage. It's not using someone if your trying to get out, but in your case you need that cushion. I spent 2 years married to the meanest man I ever encountered, and had to do this. So I wish you luck. But keep level about it to because if you slip up and somehow spend the money then you will have no one to blame but yourself, please keep a security blanket!!!!
2007-01-11 11:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been through the physical abuse and it is hard. I didn't have anywhere to go either. One night I had just had enough he came in and got mad at me and threw me across the room. I got up, stood right up to him and told him that that was the last time that he was EVER going to hit me. Well I guess my standing up for myself surprised him because he stopped hitting. I had to turn over a new leaf and start standing up for myself. If it's really bad there are always shelters that you can go to.
2007-01-11 11:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by Marenight 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be in your best interest to investigate an organization that helps women in your situation. example: http://www.austin-safeplace.org/site/PageServer?pagename=program_crs_counseling This link has a contact link that may help you find help in your area. Perhaps there is a womens shelter in your area. The choice is yours, vent here in public, or get real help.
2007-01-11 11:27:32 · answer #5 · answered by Papa 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all relationship have the bad times along with good.. maybe this is your down time. Communication is the key to success in a relaitonship.
2007-01-11 11:13:04 · answer #6 · answered by ChrissyLicious 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to save your money without him knowing. You may think you are okay but he chased your friends away, that says alot.
You should look for a cheap studio you can afford on your own.
2007-01-11 11:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by Pantherempress 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel for you I have been in those situations where .....my ex was such an azzz if you want to can e mail me or im me be glad to talk to ya i know how it feels
2007-01-11 11:13:33 · answer #8 · answered by lilme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a similar relationship right now, we just need to get out of it!Save money, reconnect with friends, and ask for help. . . : )
2007-01-11 11:10:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
and most of us here care and are not judging. Hang in there and remember this too shall pass. Be Strong and tell himhis cruelty is destroying you
2007-01-11 18:58:40 · answer #10 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋