I want to have the surprise and my hubby wants to know it so bad.
Even if the tech tells him only what it is,still,he doesn't know how to keep that secret.What should i do?
2007-01-11 10:55:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
You can ask the tech to write it down on a piece of paper and seal the envelope. Your husband can look later, in private. If he can't keep a secret, I don't know what to tell you. As your husband, he should respect your desire not to know. So if he really wants to know, he needs to keep it to himself. I've always thought it was best for both parents to be united on that front though. I think if one wants to know and one does not, it causes too many problems.
2007-01-11 11:00:03 · answer #1 · answered by P_P_K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With my first two children I did not want to know the sex either, just that the baby was healthy. So with the first neither my husband or I found out the sex and we were suprised with a girl. With our second my husband wanted to know so he was told at the ultrasound and I was not. He didn't drop any hints for the remainder of the pregnancy and I was suprised with a boy. This time we both figured that since we have both we should find out the sex and now we are both anticipating the birth of our second son.
2007-01-11 19:03:26 · answer #2 · answered by micg 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a hard one. From the minute I found out I was preggo, the first thing both of us wanted was to know what it is. I was desperate, I am one to need to be prepared for everything, I don't want a baby or a nursery in green or yellow. What are his reasons for wanting to know? What are yours for not wanting to know? I think you should both sit down and have a talk aobut this, if he wants to know it is only fair that he keep it a secret. Either way congrats on the little bundle of joy, whatever it is!
2007-01-11 19:19:37 · answer #3 · answered by 1st time momma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your body, you're carrying the baby.. tell the tech you DON'T WANT TO KNOW. Sure it's your hubbys baby too but your body..if you want a surprise you should have one. Though, I will add I didn't know the sex of my son.. and it SUCKED. Buying clothes was harder, I didn't know what colour to do the bedroom... but he wouldn't show me, I DID want to find out!
2007-01-11 19:01:19 · answer #4 · answered by ~*Isabel*~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OHHHH find out. Its fun to plan. I like finding out so I can name my baby...and bond with her. She has been anna for 20 weeks to me now and I really feel like I know her. Idon't think its bad not to find out......but its nice to refer to your baby as your son or daughter..stuff like that. Plus I wanted to get the room done and by either boy or girl clothes. Its going to be a surprise and fun no matter when you find out. And trust me....its going to be surprise enough to leave the hospital with an extra person.
Good luck deciding.
2007-01-11 20:25:22 · answer #5 · answered by E 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication. Simply evaluate who wants to know or not know the sex of the baby more. If you strongly feel that you want to wait to see the sex later, then your husband should understand that.
2007-01-11 19:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by Qu'est ce que tu penses? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont you really want to have a cute name and if you wait till it pops out themn r u gonna think of great name on the speer of the moment? and if you love each other yull work it out.
2007-01-11 19:01:22 · answer #7 · answered by michaela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just find out the sex...it will be easier to get clothes 4 it and u dont gotta take stuff back or buy all yellow
2007-01-11 18:59:37 · answer #8 · answered by I_Taste_Like_Candi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i guess one of you is going to have to give in.
2007-01-11 18:59:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋