my bestfriend doesnt like this kid who im in love with and we have been for over 6 months. and well.. shes never accepted him. but i lost my virginity to him saturday night. and for some reason everyone in school knows. and well only my other bestie knew.. how do i tell the other one that i had sex with him and how do i tell if the other is lying about telling?
2007-01-11 10:39:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well, it is your business and it seems like the guy that you are involved with has told some people that he knows and now they are telling everyone. But that is if you feel like you have to tell your best friend because it is your life and it is your right to your privacy. I don't see anything wrong with it but people shouldn't know your business unless you want them to and sadly, this guy has obviously told his friends and you two definitely need to talk. People are taking sex way out of proportion and it isn't initimate like it is supppose to be between two people that love and are IN love with each other. Now it is totally up to you if you feel like you need to tell her but think this out before you do anything. Good luck!!
2007-01-11 10:53:44 · answer #1 · answered by frakmomma04 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like You may not have to tell your friend about Sat. night cause she will find out from everyone in school...
if she's your friend you should talk to her about it even though she knows.... cause she's your friend and you cant get your first time back.
. too bad the first time is shared with the whole school; it should be soo private that only the 2 lovers know about it.
and yes the other friend is lying about telling and so will the guy you love ( HE WILL TELL), its human nature he has to tell. __so dont get mad at your friends
you didnt say your age but probably too young for the first time.. now take care of your self (medical care) cause it wont be your last time and especially now that everyone knows.....well its just too bad. good luck
2007-01-11 19:03:38 · answer #2 · answered by camero 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.you can lie and say that you were drunk at a party...
2.tell her or him the truth and tell ur friend even though ur friend never accepted him...you accepted him and because you love him....and etc etc
but i would pick the number one..because the only reason is that ur guy had bragged to everyone that he made you lose your virginity....what a jerk huh?
2007-01-11 18:50:52 · answer #3 · answered by Darius C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋