He said he doesnt want to steal his sisters thunder because she has been waiting for her boyfriend to do it for 10 years, and we've only been together 6 months. So now she is engaged and is getting married this summer..When does the thunder roll away??
2007-01-11 10:35:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I would give it a month, maybe two. By then the total excitement of her engagement will have gone (still exciting, but everyone will have heard the news and it won't be on people's minds as much). If you two are really ready to get engaged, don't put it off too long just because she just got engaged, but I think one or two months would be nice if possible. And then it will be her time to shine again very soon after, since she's getting married in the summer :) Congrats to you both...
2007-01-11 10:43:02 · answer #1 · answered by Grace1228 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be dating him for at least 12-18 months before you start considering marriage. It's much too soon to be talking about it. The thunder will pass in about a year.
2007-01-11 18:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the wedding is over wait for like a couple weeks then you should be cool to tell everyone.
2007-01-11 19:22:34 · answer #3 · answered by firstlove021 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id be pissed if i was engaged then my boyfriend asked his girlfriend. plus theres always a chance that he wants to get engaged cuz his sister did and would maybe like the attention himself. not to take his sisters away but to get the same kid of attention later on
2007-01-11 18:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by andy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
6 months?? you may want to wait a couple more months, like maybe after youve dated about a year or so... taht way theyve already got their wedding plans under way
2007-01-11 19:19:10 · answer #5 · answered by Cat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After the wedding.
2007-01-11 18:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really don't know a person in 6 months. whats the rush? wait until after her wedding. best wishes!!!!
2007-01-11 18:43:19 · answer #7 · answered by ash 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
after the sister comes back from the honeymoon
2007-01-11 18:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by chikis 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once you can no longer hear the clap of the thunder
2007-01-11 18:39:35 · answer #9 · answered by sylviavnpttn 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋