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dont know if i should persue this or not.
2007-01-11 10:20:56 · 6 answers · asked by confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry to hear about your wife, but getting involved with her sister should not even be a thought in your head. Please don't think of me as being judgemental I am just giving an outsiders perspective, which is what you are asking for by writing to answers, so don't take offense. If you were to get involved with this woman how would it affect both of your families, both mentally and emotionally. How would it affect her? She may be put in the situation to wonder if she's just replacing her deceased sister. In a way she is the other woman because you were once in a relationship with someone who was close to her. I am a true romantic and always follow my heart instead of my head but in this situation I would strongly advise you to keep it plutonic. All relationships have thier problems...the solid one's survive and the weak one's crumble but your looking at a relationship that is on shaky ground and would most likely not work out. What you have to ask yourself... is this a risk I'm willing to take.. to possibly loose her friendship also if things go bad, or do I keep the friendship and look for someone else. However you choose to live your life and fulfil your dreams I wish the best of luck to you and I hope my perspective could help.
2007-01-11 10:40:34 · answer #1 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry for your loss. If your sister in law has feelings for you, then i suggest you get with the program and get that relationship on track. Go for it. Nothing wrong with marrying that woman.
Lot's of people have done this for hundreds of years. The family may not find it appealing, but they'll get over it once they see that both of you are happy.
Good luck
2007-01-11 18:29:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First i am sorry about your loss, My thought here is this your wife would want you to be happy no matter what or with whom, If her sister is what you really want than go for it,just make sure you are doing it out of love for her not your late wife maybe she reminds you of your late wife and that is what attracts you to her,
If not i see no worng in what you want to do, If it was me i would want my husband to be happy no matter what.. Good luck to you.
2007-01-11 18:36:09 · answer #3 · answered by Alley 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about your wife. With only that info to go on, I can tell you that if anything happened to me, I would hope that my husband could find someone to make him happy and treat him well. If it were my sister (and she was single), they would have my blessing. Truly.
2007-01-11 18:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by leos_mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your wife is gone. Go for it. Just make sure you like her for who she is, and not trying to replace your wife.
2007-01-11 18:24:21 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do what makes you both happy.
2007-01-11 18:27:38 · answer #6 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋